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[–]VorpalPaperclip 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ease up on the texting. Be patient and let anticipation build.
[–]gt35r 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I haven't double texted or over texted I dont think and she's reciprocated pretty heavily, but like I said she hasn't reached out first yet. You right though I probably need to just put my phone down and meet her first so I dont fuck it up lol.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Common interests help. If she’s shy, and this is almost stereotyping, but music allows shy people to get lost and escape. So they typically really like music, so find some common music tastes, ask for suggestions, offer some of your own within the same or a similar genre. This gives her at least something to have an opening to initiate with. Otherwise, she might just end up staying introspective and bottling up whatever she might want to say because “he’ll think that’s stupid”.
Give her an out to not look stupid, find commonalities between you two, and highlight them by just talking about it. Never EVER highlight that you have commonalities, they’ll know you have something in common when you bring up what you like and it’s shared. It’s being captain obvious and reads in essence as “heyyyy we have soooooo much in common omg like we’re totally the best friends ever, it’s like we’re soul mates”. WAY too forward, way too strong, way too desperate.
Be chill, don’t let your need for pussy cloud your stoicism, bring stuff up here and there, don’t dump your box of likes and dislikes on the ground. Let THEM be the ones to sift through it by individual articles of preferences
[–]VorpalPaperclip 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, you aren’t going to get to know her texting.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What are y'all conversations like? Did you ever talked about anything sexual or hinted at it and in anyway. If so, how did she react?
I have dated a lot of shy girls and there are different types. There are shy girls who are more traditional and won't do hook up or one night stand. There are shy girls who are only shy in the beginning but opens up sexually when they get to know you. It depend on the girl.
I would test the water with her and see how she reacts at first. Be confident and jokingly ask her what her intention with you is and give her a wink. See if she is flirty in a sexual manner.
Afterward, how you approach the situation will depend on how you see the relationship going for the both of y'all. If you want to be serious with her, go slow if she is not that type of girl. But if you just want a hook up and she doesn't seem like the type that would, just cut your loses. Is best if you are honest with your intention.
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