Hey folks,

I’m trying to step up my dating game, i’m talking to some girls and sometimes they wanna set up for drinks or coffee.

Now I’m just mostly there for a quick fling if the vibe is there so I don’t really wanna small talk at coffee but I don’t drink alcohol either. It always talk about like what do you do and both people act interessed but never meet again.

I know these dates are kinda lowkey a test to see if the other partner is a certified weirdo but how to I manage to change a proposition of grabbing a beer to a more casual vibe? Telling I don’t drink is always a giant buzkill