So 3 years ago I had no idea how to continue, after 1000+ rejections (educated guess, did not actually count) and almost no results. I wrote about it here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bklpir/1000_approaches_lots_of_instant_rejections_how_to/

and I got a lot of suggestions/comments, ranging from "you lack self awareness" and "you're probably a creep", "you send a desperate vibe" to "you need to take a shower" and "you need to lift more".

Those comments were not very helpful, but fortunately, there were also plenty of people who gave comments that led me in the right direction. I'm thankful to these people!

The comments that in retrospective were very very helpful all had to do with stuff that is going on in the subconscious mind.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bklpir/comment/emjh8yy

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bklpir/comment/emiur87

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bklpir/comment/emlsnyl

The comment from /u/Pokemastra was the start of a big journey of understanding emotions and emotional blockages.

I'm sure there are plenty of guys who have no results, but have read all the tips and tricks and are out of options/feel like they are. Hopefully my experiences will help you now.

This is what I've done since writing the original post:

  • I've done microdosing and full trips with magic mushrooms, these conquered some of my inner demons, made me connect with the universe, and gave me a deep understanding of what the real issue was. I call my first healing mushroom trip my rebirth. I cannot recommend it enough, especially if you think you're out of options. It's like ingesting your own psychologist who fully understands you, does not judge you and tells you exactly what you need to hear to solve the issues. I've never felt so much love and tranquility and after the trip I was a new person
  • Thanks to this trip I understood at a very very deep level it's all about 'energy'. And I was carrying some energy-sucking 'demons' that where there since childhood (physical abuse) that made me afraid of women at a very deep level. So I was trying to pick up women at a conscious level while at the same time being afraid of them at a deep subconscious level.... you can imagine the outcome. It's like driving a car with brakes on.
  • Next to regular meditation, I've started doing energy healing. Especially after the insights of these inner demons that suck energy (that made me appear to women as a "black hole" instead of a "source of light"). The book Emotion Code from Bradley Nelson has helped a lot in removing so called 'heart walls' and other stuck (unprocessed) emotions from past experiences.

Books to read/sites to visit

  • F Dodson - Levels of energy: a book about consciousness and how it affects your life
  • Bradley Nelson - Emotion Code: a book about energy healing
  • Brian Begin - Fearless Man: one of the few seduction teachers focusing on emotional healing and the importance of it

All in all, the reason I got so many harsh rejections had to do with traumatic experiences from my childhood, experiences I forgot about but still had impact in my adult life. The mushrooms made me remember the experiences and allowed me to solve it.

Unfortunately due to COVID-19 I did not do a lot of daygame, and no night game at all, but since energy healing, approaching women has become much more successful, no longer these harsh instantaneous rejections. Way more fun responses and big smiles from the ladies I approach. They now actually like it when I approach them directly from the very first second. This is so different from what it used to be when they ignored me from the first second.

Energy healing has changed my life, and most of the pickup techniques are no longer needed. Things go automatically now.

So there is hope!