Asperger’s Success? Is it Possible?

pehanger · 2021-12-29T04:29:16+00:00

Aspie here, if you make seduction your aspie obsession, you can learn how just like with anything else. Build your social skills and social value. Sorry, but definitely lose weight. College helps a lot with meeting women. Go to bars. Do standup comedy or karaoke or anything that will draw people to you. Join social clubs. Watch YouTube videos on cold approach, picking up women, etc.

If a woman is in your bed watching a movie with you, that's a clear sign for you to make a move. You wouldn't believe how long it took me to understand that.

PaleontologistNo2785 · 2021-12-29T04:59:41+00:00

Being 380lbs socially akward is not a death sentence. Death sentence= something unchangeable is wrong with u.

Historical-Bed4315 · 2021-12-30T05:46:55+00:00

don't worry about game bro. you gotta lose weight.

get under 200. you don't even want the kind of women you could pull at that weight.

Tutorzilla · 2021-12-29T06:42:28+00:00

Came here because there’s actually a romance book called “The Bride Test” about a man with Asperger’s finding love, albeit it is from the woman’s perspective mostly. I just mention it because it is important to see ourselves represented. Also, if you’re looking to lose a lot of weight (as am i), i am going to start taking a new weight loss drug called Wegovy that is supposed to actually work. The studies were very promising and significant in comparison to existing weight loss medication. I have decided to treat my obesity as a health problem because the alternative basically forces us into negative self-talk. If long term weight loss was possible with diet and exercise, the industry wouldn’t be worth billions.

Notequal_exe · 2021-12-29T04:16:49+00:00

22M aspie here. I've had sex with a girl in a 2 year relationship. Had offers for sex other times but I didn't want to take them with hookups.

Virtual-Photo5190 · 2021-12-29T20:37:45+00:00

First, you should stop thinking women are objects. Focus on relationships, not fu**ing.

DMNC87 · 2021-12-30T01:46:59+00:00

The only reason why you and many other guys on this sub have dating problems is because you don’t put in effort into your appearance and presentation. Of course your general behavior and confidence is #1 but you only develop that through experience with women

Just forget about it and do everything you can to lose the weight.

You want a few things:

Be lean enough where your jawline is visible. (don’t worry about if it’s a good jawline or not) you’re talking about like 10-15% body fat. You do not need to be muscular but it helps I guess

Keep good hygiene. Wear lotion and cologne and whiten your teeth. Try those whitening strips + get teeth whitening if you can afford it

Do a hair transplant if you’re balding (optional but it’s great)

Wear clothes that fit you and are grown up looking. No graphics etc just simple colors that blend together. Take jeans to a tailor to get them to fit well. Try out creamy tone colors they kind of look good on everybody

Whenever you speak to women, do not flirt. Do not say anything sexual ever. Be polite, friendly, formal and pleasant. Focus on getting your look right and it’ll naturally happen the closer you get your look right.

Trust me. So many people will downvote me and everything but it will save you years of trauma depression and obsession. It’s so crazy that there’s so many people on this sub and dating forums that have problems but have never ever genuinely tried to fix their appearance.

The goal is look average not like a super model

Title	Asperger’s Success? Is it Possible?
Author	TwanThaDon
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	December 29, 2021 3:58 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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