I work in a high-volume restaurant with live music. A gorgeous young woman in a tight one piece black dress stood in front of me while I was running drinks last night, telling me I wasn’t allowed to pass. I was pleasantly dumbfounded, normally this type of thing only happens with older less attractive ladies. My mind went blank, so I just stood face to face with her and quietly waited until she moved.

Afterwards I re-approached her table and told her she never should have moved, and that I was challenging her to a staring contest (but she was wearing sunglasses we give out with a certain rum-based drink so I admitted in retrospect I couldn’t see if I won). She laughed that she blocked my way because I’m hot and lightly slapped my ass. We bantered a little bit more, but I knew I was coming off a tad amateur. Didn’t get too insecure about this though, just felt good to be practicing and having an attractive woman notice my ongoing evolution. She had an older gentleman sitting with her (that she clearly wasn’t with but was a little awkward because we were completely ignoring him). Lol for this reason I didn’t ask for her number. Probably still should’ve.