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[–]Hoho2332 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
give up is never an option bro, you give up doesnt mean you dont care about it anymore, just like you dont wanna take any action but deep down you still wanna meet someone i know it is really tough, life is really challenging all the time ( work, money,parent and dating) keep trying man, i am the same path as you, i feel really down sometime but i dont wanna give up niether should you
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[–]Hoho2332 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want someone to talk to I will always be here
[–]Hoho2332 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you need someone to talk to I will always be here
[–]Alive-Doughnut2345 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually no who am I kidding it’s time to abandon this futile game
[–]Alive-Doughnut2345 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don’t even care anymore man I think I’m just blatantly unattractive. And I’m too damn anxious to make the effort to approach. Not that that would work anyway.
Trying to change my attitude but when you go year after year of nothing you start to really question your validity as a potential partner
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just sucks cause I was so close a little earlier. Two cuties that I met through sheer luck but because I’m an idiot who’s life is not in order at this time, I wasn’t able to do anything beyond a single date. Although I suppose that is an improvement considering it was my first one...
Idk I’m trying to get my ducks in a row here but it’s just taking forever and like it or not, opportunities are slipping and the clock is ticking.
I’ve majorly fucked up and I’m praying to God that I can salvage some semblance of a dating life
[–]TheTruth221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
social circle theory
[–]bobaho3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should drink alittle to loosen up. Alcohol makes me less anxious and want to talk to people.
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Looking at your profile and it might be best for you to not look for a woman right now. You make a lot of posts about social anxiety. The best thing for that would be to increase your self esteem and social circle.
There's a few things you can do to do that:
Find ways to do what you enjoy in groups. Whatever it is, find like minded people to do it with. Enjoy cooking? Take a cooking class. Politics? Plenty of groups for that. You will eventually meet someone that you click with.
Listen to hypnosis for improving self esteem. There's a mountain of these both on Spotify and YouTube. Just put "hypnosis for self esteem" in the comment section. Listen using earphones in a place where you can feel comfortable.
Join a gym and/or take up a martial art. Having some muscle mass on you helps to improve confidence, and in my experience, knowing you can beat up most people helps to not be afraid of them not liking you.
Do all this and message me after you do and I'll give you advice on meeting women.
Sent you a PM just in case
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