What isn’t making sense?

2dice1hand · 2021-11-27T10:36:02+00:00

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Relative-Soft-21 · 2021-11-27T16:26:37+00:00

Everything. Every fucking thing, everyone else seems to figure it out in seconds, meanwhile I’m here sitting in the corner, sipping my beer and wondering why everything seems so easy for everyone else while I’m struggling to even get a glance in my direction. I gym frequently, I have my own things going on and yet it feels like I’m invisible to the fucking world.

2dice1hand · 2021-11-28T23:56:27+00:00

Toasted waffles great name!!! That’s awesome your understanding everything! No better time to learn these social skills than right now why every one is regressing in their ability to engage with others! I can only speak from what I know of fashion and my hope is that it will help illuminate something for you moving forward! I’m sure you know but in case you don’t the clothes don’t make the person, vibe is everything and when you wear something so long as your confident and free flowing and comfortable in it then that congruency will be translated consciously and subconsciously to the people you encounter and they will feel that you aren’t faking it and they will accept what your wearing as part of your confident package! So now that you know that you could wear anything as long as you pull it off then the next thing is to learn some timeless fashion, key word being “timeless” as it never goes out of style And you can’t go wrong with having a baseline wardrobe rooted in that. For this think well fitting, tailored, clean, plain styles. -black or white T-shirts (I buy Eddie Bauer) -button up shirts of different colors or patterns. Can’t beat the rolled up sleeve look. (I buy Taylor stitch) -denim jeans (I wear Levi’s but I’m looking to find a better company that has a more tailored fit) -shoes I wear square toe western boots but this is my preference. I also wear Vans when I’m at the beach with shorts and a hoodie. And I wear several different types of athletic shoes and workout clothes for when I’m weight lifting or exercising.

Accessories -wrist watch, this is another opportunity to express your style The sky is the limit with how expensive you want to go with this I personally have watches that cost $60 dollars from kohl’s all the way up to 4k from an authorized dealer. -gold necklaces are very much a timeless look that lay under your shirt and just ever so slightly poke out which is super eye catching! -bracelet, on the opposite wrist of the watch.

And finally a clean jacket Like a tan or black suede!

Match all this with a fragrance and you’ll be set!

Oh and you can’t forget beanies in the winter! Let me know how this lands with you…. You don’t want colors that clash and I’m sure there is a guide that will tell you what goes together but the main takeaway of this post is wearing articles of clothing that fit well and that aren’t walking billboards for company’s and instead are clean with some personality being expressed in the watch, necklace and bracelet

Crixusgannicus · 2021-11-27T22:34:30+00:00

Nothing about the game "doesn't make sense."

LOTs about would-be gamers don't make sense at all.

Stuff like continued oneitis after you should know better.

Arguments over which "style" or "school" is correct. Although amusingly (to me) the same sorts of arguments have gone on for thousands of years in the martial arts world, not just physical fighting but stuff like "what's better? 9mm or .45?"

Let's see what else. Naw..not that one I don't feel like arguing about that one.

So. Hmmm...

I'll just end by saying if you find something that works for you, then GOOD. That's all that matters. Even if it's blind pig strategy of just relentlessly approaching even with no skills at all. Sheer numbers will lead to success.

No matter what you do, you will not succeed in this or anything else without
taking action.

Even the hottest chick on the planet, whoever that is, has to "show up" to win, even if ALL she has to do is show up once.

Not taking action is the number one and ONLY thing that doesn't make sense.

vardarac · 2021-11-27T23:11:02+00:00

How can I have an "abundance mindset" if my brain has essentially been shocked by dozens of failures into thinking that the result will be the same; that I will have strong initial interest that quickly fades when it is apparent that I am either socially inept or appear so because anxiety from losing so much prevents me from being authentic and bold?

toastedwaffles2002 · 2021-11-28T20:27:57+00:00

Most of it has actually become really clear to me, however the one thing I cannot grasp is style.

I feel like everybody just has knowledge of what type of clothes are "in style" and I'm hitting a wall because there's always something wrong with what I'm wearing. It's gotten to the point where I'm actually checking with friends in the morning to make sure that what I'm wearing meshes well enough. IDK how people, especially guys, just "know" what is in style. Any suggestions would be so so much appreciated.

Title	What isn’t making sense?
Author	2dice1hand
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	November 27, 2021 9:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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