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[–]bridgetthebanker 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Shoulda kissed her!!!! Do not waste time. If she comes out to your car it’s her way of saying “touch me now.” She doesn’t have time to waste. You’re gonna have to steal kisses like a teenager. She doesn’t have privacy.
[–]straight2thadome 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You know, at first when i read this response i didn't get it. Now that I'm thinking about it, you're right. Most of my customers I see in person at a reasonable hour invite me in and we chat. She is living with her ex, due to reasons she really can't control.... Honestly. I won't bore you with the situation, but how would you suggest i follow up on going out for drinks this weekend? I feel like at drinks is where the kiss happens. Potentially even closing at my place, as she doesn't necessarily need to go home if the kids are at moms.
[–]bridgetthebanker 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ask her when can she sneak over for drinks. Have wine and cheese or whatever at your house ready at all times. Be patient. I’ve been in her shoes.
[–]straight2thadome 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I was thinking more like a bar at first, but i like the idea of using the word "sneak"... Not to sound like a weirdo. But it's prolly a good idea to have the wine and cheese ready, good call!
It does NOT help i live 40 minutes away from her.
[–]bridgetthebanker 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok then maybe a picnic somewhere if it’s not too cold OR a nearby bar, just not one where the ex could be. “Hey when can we sneak off for a drink?” Etc etc
[–]straight2thadome 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
That's what I was thinking, ""when can we sneak off for a drink."
It hadnt even occurred to me about the ex being at the bar too. Good fucking call.
Edit: it's definietly too cold for a picnic.
[–]5_7pickup 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Do you have kids yourself? Dating single moms come with…a different set of issues.
[–]straight2thadome 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I don't. While you're totally correct, I'm 30, want kids and wouldn't mind being step dad to additionals. Most women my age have kids. The last 3 women ive even entertained have had kids.
[–]5_7pickup 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
As a 30yo with a successful business idk why youre going for single moms. You can legit date 21yo and start a family.
[–]straight2thadome 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'm fat. Lmfao. But working on it. Down 15lbs rn. Plus 21 year olds are immature. I'm not trying to go out and party and all that shit. Maybe like a 25 year old. But at the same time i wouldn't mind making this a first conquest back after a 7 year hiatus.
Plus there's a lot of info I'm not including to not dox myself here, even if the chances of someone seeing it in this particular sub Reddit are minimal. It's no normal business.
[–]5_7pickup 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What industry?
[–]straight2thadome 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cannabis. Feel free to DM me if you wanna know more about this particular thing and how it pertains to the situation.
[–][deleted] 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
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Welllll, we did hang out once and i pussied out i could a fucked her that night most likely, which was like 6 years ago. It didn't help i was fucking all our coworkers either. Lmao lets put it this way, the store manager saw me waiting on a bench on my day off and asked me which girl i was taking home from work that night. I rattled off her employee ID number and he laughed all the way to his office.
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[–]straight2thadome 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I definitely used to be. I'm feeling kinda lost with it rn. Almost all my game came naturally but i did read Nick Strauss's the game and took some pointers from there too. NGL it didn't even cross my mind to kiss her yesterday at my car, i feel like i need to up the rapport with one decent night out and id be in like Flynn, which would also give me the confidence boost i need rn
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