Asking out an older woman who has a kid with her at my work?

sharksarenotreal · 2021-10-31T11:01:05+00:00

Why should the answer be straight away no? You want to fuck, ask her out. If you're uncomfortable with asking in front of the kid, I like the social media approach but honestly, asking in front of the kid might be good for his development. He'd see a normal way of asking people out and that things don't always have to lead into a relationship and that's perfectly fine.

FlatDistance5 · 2021-10-31T14:47:01+00:00

Don’t separate them. Instead talk to her per usual
Since you already have casual conversation. Say this.
in the middle of the conversation -honestly you seem pretty interesting, we should split a bottle sometime soon.

...I would normally show empathy and say I know your with your kid but i find you attractive and had to meet you.

But since you already casually converse with her ask her out the way that I told you. Don’t have to acknowledge or show empathy for asking her out with her son there

IMO even though she’s thick I wonder how many men ask her out given she’s 6’6, I’d imagine not many. She might just be hoping you would. Probably confused why you didn’t do it already she’s already asking you get to know you questions (although she could just be being nice). Next time in the middle of the convo regardless whether the kid is there or not tell her she seems interesting and you two should split a bottle of wine.

DanieTB99 · 2021-10-31T11:49:53+00:00

introduce yourself to her, it does you no good to just admire her from far, make eye contact and find a way to talk to her even if it’s for 4-5 minutes and exchange contact information.

if you do manage to exchange contacts, text only to set things up ( dates or link ups to fuck), getting to know her should only happen in person or on call.

be authentic, say what you mean mean what you say, I’m sure there’s plenty of niggas who want to fuck her, so stand out by being bold, confident and slick with your words.

fuck her brains out, if all goes well.

FishMasterMemer · 2021-10-31T10:54:27+00:00

Dude, get a girlfriend.

Do not fuck a marrige up only for your benefit.

Title	Asking out an older woman who has a kid with her at my work?
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Date	October 31, 2021 10:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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