Having group of friend that are getting girls everytime and Im still shy to do it :(

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-10-17T14:06:06+00:00

You don’t need to say stuff like your friend, but you need to get rid of that shyness because it’s not a masculine trait. And if you don’t behave masculine then attraction can’t happen. As humans feel attraction when there is sexual polarity, that is masculine energy and feminine energy.

When you behave insecure, shy, weak, afraid… You are acting less masculine and as a result there is less sexual polarity. When you act confident, strong, brave, kinda cocky, and like you don’t give a fuck about rejection or what others think of you, you are acting more masculine and thus behaving more like a man, and girls like men.

By this i don’t mean that you are acting feminine, although you are, kinda. You are just acting like a kid rather than a man. Girls like men, not kids. And by that i mean that even if you are an adult you still act like a kid trapped in a man’s body and that’s the problem. You need to act like a man.

And that involves what i said above be brave, accept rejections when they happen, do not take them personally, stop giving a fuck about what others think of you, stop being ashamed of yourself for what you do. It really is a choice.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-17T13:15:20+00:00

Closed mouths, don't get fed.

You can't be passive and get girls.

You must be the one to make the moves and lead the interaction towards your targeted desire, the girl in your bed.

GUCCIBUKKAKE · 2021-10-17T15:03:31+00:00

Here’s what you gotta do and you’ll get guaranteed poon.

Have a girl in mind at the event. Laugh at all her jokes, pay special attention to her, but don’t hover. Have fun with a group of friends close so she can see, so it looks like you’re easy to talk to. Bonus points if it seems that you are the most energetic one, or the one who receives the most energy from surrounding people. Look at her a good amount, but not a lot like a creep. Just enough for her to barely notice. If your eyes lock, don’t look away right away, keep that gaze until she looks away/ you get uncomfortable.

Pick a good time to have a personal conversation with her, not when she’s around just one person, but when she’s around a group and it seems like she’s not the center of the groups attention. Compliment her on some thing she’s wearing, then ask a question about her. This should get the conversation going. Know your setting. Find out who she’s with by observation or side questions. If it’s just one other friend, ask her for her number. If she’s with a group or solo, then you can ask her to come over, or go to a bedroom if you feel the chemistry is right, you should know.

Also, you don’t even need to try all the time, just have fun with you friends and situations will naturally occur.

Good luck dog, and don’t XD :D when you text her, it’s cringe to girls. And also, I highly doubt your friend is getting tail just by saying that, he probably puts in the work beforehand by flirting, conversation, and confidence. Good luck.

Title	Having group of friend that are getting girls everytime and Im still shy to do it :(
Author	noskinfromapex
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	October 17, 2021 1:10 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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