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[–]TrolsMan26 points27 points28 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, it is beta to offer.
You just do it.
[–]FourCuteKittens9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do you cordially offer to fuck her too? Do you ask real nicely for a blowjob when you want one? No. You just do what you want. Same idea. Want to eat her out? Do it. Don't want to? Don't. It's simple.
[–]dzkkne1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
If u bothered to write more than one line about your situation, wouldn’t have to make assumptions.
Do you think we are all psychics here?
[–]throwaway2_5_5_2-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I wasn't asking about a specific situation. First commenter understood it.
[–]dzkkne1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ok. More important question for your own development is - why do you feel that offering is beta?
Also what do you mean by offering?
[–]throwaway2_5_5_2-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I feel offering is beta because you offer a service to them. A masculine man should expect their dick to get sucked.
The contesting idea is that a lot of women are shy about initiating sexual interaction, so if they are more likely to accept the offer of oral, it could be an easy step to escalation.
I originally meant offering in a verbal way, but after the first comment, I'd amend that to "giving".
[–]dzkkne3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Man, I don’t know you as a person, but it sounds to me like you have some misconceptions about masculinity and some insecurities. Well who doesn’t..
Basically you can offer them oral, ask them, don’t ask them - it doesn’t affect your masculinity. It is about how you do it and whether you can stand by what you want to do
[–]throwaway2_5_5_20 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. I'm gonna go for my 3rd sidebar read...
[–]ShotgunTRP0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When a girl is on my bed and we are making out. My hands rubbing her thighs and pussy through her panties. Kiss titties kiss stomach pull panties to side and start tongueing away slip a finger in and off we go
Never offer or question.
[–]module_process0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You didn't like the replies you got in the other thread?
This isnt related to any other threads. It was a standalone question.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Offer?
"M'lady, will you give me the honor of allowing me to going down on you?"
Idk, sounds pretty alpha to me.
Offering is what you do to aquire verbal consent.
Otherwise she can mentally and socially spin it like you are a creepy rapist.
I always ask. Fuck if it's 'beta' I don't like women that can't affirm desires and dislikes. Those are the ones that hold the species back.
[–]dzkkne-2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Loool where these guys cone from.
It is beta for you, because you obviously don’t like it
How did you come to that assumption? Coming up with non-existent reasons to stroke your ego?
I do like it, but I was asking since offering oral could be seen as a submissive role.
[–]gainz88 1 points1 points1 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
So, essentially, your question is: "Is it beta to do something both you and a girl enjoy?"
Fantastic logic.
[–]throwaway2_5_5_2-1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In contrast I constantly hear how women want men to take control during sex. Just trying to figure things out.
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