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[–]KingoftheNorth412 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You are interrupting all of this as her being interested in you. It could be that she’s just being nice to you.
You are very needy and it’s good you see this. Make a plan to STOP.
I would go no contact with her outside of work. At work, I would just say hello when passing or when she comes to you.
If she asks why she hasn’t heard from you just say you’ve been busy.
[–]Elizabeth1118 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes i know that I was needy because I don’t have friends, i really feel sad that I showed my self in that type of people. I’m really f*n sad
[–]KingoftheNorth412 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like you might benefit from therapy.
[–]Elizabeth1118 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No need (I’m in a new city where i don’t have friends only here)
No she wasn’t only nice, she was into me but i didn’t realize that in the beginning, because i thought she just nice or etc
[–]TaypHill 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You noticed in time apparently. She seems to be the type of person to very quickly lose interest when the other person starts investing even a little.
If you want her i would say the best tactic would be to just play it cool and let her do all the work. She might be much more into that.
I also want to point out that if she loses interest that quickly, she may lose it all once she gets whatever it is she wants (not saying that will happen, but beware).
If she thought you were needy while you didn’t have a crush on her, imagine if you actually did?
Also, think about how the situation at work would be if you got hurt or the other way around, as it is a possible outcome.
[–]YoDaddy1069 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’m so fascinated by lesbians. So often, a lot of you come off as needy simps, but no one hates you for it. It’s prob because no one sees you as threatening. I’m gonna repeat some advice I was told by a female friend of mine. “If you’re wondering if a girl likes you or not, she prob doesn’t.” Women often times let a guy know if she likes him. And when I say women, I mean real actual adults, not kids still in highschool
[–]Elizabeth1118 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’m wondering because she give mixed signals, she comes and check me for no reasons, she tried to talk or initiate conversation, then she suddenly stop, and again she call me to attend her work shop, and she searched about me then we looked at each other for straight 3 seconds, and when she said something to the audience she looked at me to see me if i smiled or no, if so she smiled and repeat it again, then she ignores my messages. And like that, I thought that I can do the next step but she set boundaries, or she tested me? Idk and ask to go to cinema first before we add each other or Idk what we call that, i asked for a drive and she said no I’m busy i have to go back to check my sister she is diabetic and i can’t but in the same time she was taking selfie
Anyway, I’m only confused
[–]YoDaddy1069 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It doesn’t sound to me like she was ever into you. It seems a lot more likely that she checked on you and initiated conversations in order to see that you were ok and to build rapport.
[–]Elizabeth1118 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe you are right! I’m not sad or I don’t try to denial the truth! Actually I want the truth just to move on in my life and work and ignore her
[–]YoDaddy1069 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel you very much rn too. I’m also 22 (M) and REALLY into older women in their 30s. They’re really hot, but they’re everywhere. Just go to a bar and find another one
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