Just turned 19yo in September and I just graduated from high school class 2021. I don’t have a car yet and I don’t have my license either. But I am working on getting my car and license. It’s just lot of thing are out of my control which is and has been slowing the process down drastically. I’m not in college either. I’m just working a job as of right now.

Only things I do right now is skateboard, and work, play my game from time to time, and also self improve like working out, meditating, saving money budgeting, and etc just trying to better myself.

Most of my friends and associates I use to hang with or talk to in high school. I kinda distance myself from because I got tired of waiting for them. or I always reached out but they never reach out or they just overall act weird and flaky toward me. Or they don’t want to do shit but smoke which is boring to me. So I just enjoy my own company for the most part I still hang with one of my friend though. But we only hang when there’s something to do together like going to a social event. (We’re actually going to a concert next month)

How can I improve my dating life when I have such an anti social lifestyle. I like parties in fact I use to go to a lot of them in high school with my high school homies. But now I just chat with people at my local skatepark sometimes and if I feel like we clicked I’ll trade social and hit them up to skate sometimes.

Other than that I’m usually just chilling by myself at home. Which I have no problem with but I want more women in life, parties, and more opportunities to meet people also and balance of solitude and still have a social life. (I also use dating apps btw)