Meeting a lot of girls recently, it seems girls attraction is instant, it's either there or isn't as soon as she meets you. From there on there is no changing it, is this true or can you still get a girl to like you even though she has no initial attraction?

norwegiandoggo · 2021-10-03T12:07:38+00:00

Let's say a girl's intitial interest in you can be scored on a gradual scale from 1-10, with 10 being maximum interest. You can potentially get any girl. But your chances are smallest at 1, and highest at 10. So place your bets intelligently. If she's at a 1 you should probably put in zero effort, since there might be only a 1 in a 1000 chance she'll change her mind. Not great odds and most likely a waste of effort. Plus, you probably want to avoid dealing with too much rejection as it can have some negative effects on your mood and morale.

gbizzle2 · 2021-10-03T10:33:17+00:00

If you worry about changing it then you will run the risk of spreading yourself too thin.

Most women's attraction is instant. I know this because women will choose hard and be all over me and i hadnt said a word to them. And it takes a while for them to get over you. Learn how to become conventionally attractive in the way you carry yourself and looks wont matter.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-04T05:00:41+00:00

There's..

YES girls.. they like you.. and it's your job not to mess things up..

MAYBE girls.. unsure of you, you can either maybe make it happen, or crash and burn..

NO girls.. not gonna happen no matter what..

The better you get at game.. the more of the MAYBE girls you can turn into YESES.

Wise_Bit_86 · 2021-10-03T14:46:12+00:00

Alpha male strategies states this best in one of his videos. These girls already have a high initial attraction to you. From this point you can either raise or lower her attraction depending on how you carry yourself.

Girls that see you as a 5, you have to put some work to raise their attraction. If they see you at 4 or below, it is very rough and not worth the time or energy in my opinion.

However, girls that see you as a 7 or 8 initially will make it very easy for you and put forth alot of effort into the interaction. It’s also much easier to escalate to the flirting and teasing stages with the ones that already have high attraction.

But staying the wrong things and/or not having confidence is the fastest thing to lower her attraction. She can see you as a 10 one moment and then to a 3 at the speed of light.

Appropriate_Ad3327 · 2021-10-03T15:14:44+00:00

How tall are you?

ProphetPhilosophic · 2021-10-04T13:12:06+00:00

This reminded me of some wisdom I heard years back. If you see a girl thats giving you indications of interest, approach her. If she doesn't give you that interest she's probably not interested. And it doesn't necessarily mean she's not attracted, it may be she's not looking in general

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