How do you know when you’re at a decent level of looks to approach IRL?

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-02T02:58:57+00:00

This is a really bad way to go about things..

If you want girls..

Gym shouldn't be the first thing you're worried about..

It should be learning proper game and taking action.

Otherwise odds are that there's a 99% chance you'll be like most other guys..

Making excuses..

On why you're not ready..

Right now it's..

"but hitting the gym hardcore first to get to that sort of baseline level of attractiveness where chicks might at least give me a chance."

Then once you've got your body right, it'll be some other excuse..

If only I build up my Instagram profile up.. then I'll be ready..

Then it will be something else..

You're just doing what I call "getting ready, to get ready"

All these things are not the most important thing when it comes to getting girls..

The most important thing when it comes to getting girls is taking consistent action..

The gym stuff is great, you can do that too..

But you should be learning proper game and taking action right now too.

Unless you're an 8/10+ you won't get many IOIs..

And you shouldn't be screening for IOI's anyways because even if you're an 8/10 or 9/10 most girls who you would have a chance with won't give them.

Don't ever wait for IOIs..

You see a girl you like, you go up and talk to her.

iclap2fap · 2021-10-02T07:01:06+00:00

Be yourself, smile, Greet, converse.

Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-10-02T03:49:29+00:00

Find a mirror. Blow on the mirror. Does it get a little condensation on the mirror, a little fog? If so, great, if you can fog a mirror you are qualified to approach women in real life.

You may have a better success rate if you are jacked, but your success rate will improve just from trial and error. A year from now, do you want to be jacked but have no experience or be jacked and have a lot of practice under your belt? So I am saying, do both - go to Gym and approach women.

gbizzle2 · 2021-10-02T02:15:52+00:00

I guess its when women are always flirting and eyeing you. Or you can feel them trying to not show their attraction.

But i dont know what its like to not have that so i cant answer 100%

Shakespeare-Bot · 2021-10-02T06:43:28+00:00

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OutsideIntelligent · 2021-10-05T20:28:09+00:00

https://youtu.be/T5TMeM1BYvY

This video points out alot of key details you'll be interested in

Title	How do you know when you’re at a decent level of looks to approach IRL?
Author	softwaresalesman55
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	October 2, 2021 1:53 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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