Hey, I am 21 years old, for now still a virgin and I haven’t had any actual long relationship with a girl, I’m not that active in social networks and I text to some girls I have something with only every now and then. In my daily job I get to meet girls around my age all the time, some did pick up my interest but I didn’t put much effort to actually start something with them. I know how to dress and I look pretty good when I take care of myself, I can talk with strangers for hours but when it gets to communicating with girls that I have something towards I find myself much more careful and thus less comfortable and talkative The thing that bothers me the most is that I can’t, at all, have any sort of physical interaction with girls (and I was actually raised in a very warm family) I feel like I have to take myself out of my comfort zone to kiss or even touch a girl no matter how much attraction there is between us, when it gets there I know how to talk and act more confidently, but I am terrified (almost harassed) of touching a girl or kissing her if it doesn’t come from her side, And even if it will It’d probably make me feel uncomfortable. Very recently I went to a bar with a bunch of friends and everything worked out really well between me and other 2 girls, but when things were supposed to go beyond talking nothing happened, and we ended up as friends in the end of the night.

Can anyone give me tips and share with me his experience on how to deal with this problem? What is it that I’m missing and why I always get friendzoned?