(19m) never had a girlfriend before and I want to ask out this girl in my class

Elbynerual · 2021-09-25T04:54:21+00:00

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Vegan_Otaku · 2021-09-25T03:52:13+00:00

Be more direct but smooth, yet, sincere. Idk what's your energy like, so I can't diagnose you properly.

Just know this tho: The girl probably senses attraction, too. Don't mess up your chance by talking about irrelevant sht opposed to what you feel. It's disingenuous and a waste of time.

She'll see that as weakness and dishonest. It's better to express your feelings, in the proper way (not on some simp sht), and be shot down, as opposed to beating around the bush and being a cheap chump.

Even if she not feeling you now, you can always chop it up with more shawties on the campus. You gotta build that confidence tho and be a better you.

DM me if you want something that fits your context more. By the way, I will not charge you. I'll be in your, or anyone's corner, so long as they listen and don't waste my time.

Papa_Musk · 2021-09-25T04:01:19+00:00

your plan is too elaborate, just ask her after next class to go on a date with you, takes guts to do that and if she is interested in you showing her you have guts will make you more attractive

-deathrider- · 2021-09-25T12:19:36+00:00

You have to go up to her and tell her what you think because odds are shes not going to make the first move.

Just be honest with her. Tell her that you dont really do this often and you're nervous as hell but you think shes cute and you want to get to know her better. You're going to be shitting your pants probably you have to nutand get comfortable and understand the fact that you may be rejected. Good luck.

(19m) never had a girlfriend before and I want to ask out this girl in my class

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Title	(19m) never had a girlfriend before and I want to ask out this girl in my class
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Date	September 25, 2021 2:49 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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