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4

Men can call out rude behavior or make a joke of it. It's a test of a man's boundaries and social savvy to determine his confidence and social skills. A man who values himself and has good social skills won't put up with rude social behavior.
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:55 PM
25

His claims of pickup (80% success rate) and banging girls after 30 min most of the time seem wildly exaggerated. There is definitely some truth in this article but also definitely heavily biased based on the authors "experience" and choices. I think the biggest takeaways are being emotionally secure and triggering women's emotions are keys in seduction.
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:49 PM
6

Dress up in a wedding dress and propose to her at work.
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:32 PM
1

Nope
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:28 PM
3

Feels better than incurable stis and unwanted children
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:26 PM
28

Some guy with 3 kids and herpes downvoted this
/r/seduction03/10/21 02:54 AM
41

Always wear a condom always.
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:47 AM
3

There are no 10s and I'm an 11
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:08 PM
2

knowing a lot about something
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:19 PM
1

"she puked on my penis"
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:14 PM
1

imo date more women at once
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:10 PM
-3

Time to lower your standards
/r/seduction29/09/21 07:06 AM
1

be forward
/r/seduction29/09/21 06:04 AM
1

if it knocks her out the window
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:50 AM
6

As long as you are OK with her leaving your house to go bang some other dude after your date...
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:18 PM
5

If you enjoy dancing yes
/r/seduction25/09/21 11:37 PM
1

sex = comfort + attraction you made her attracted but you didn't make her comfortable enough
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:17 AM
1

your plan is too elaborate, just ask her after next class to go on a date with you, takes guts to do that and if she is interested in you showing her you have guts will make you more attractive
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:01 AM
3

what to do, meet new girls, forget this girl, invite her to a big party next time you have one/go to one aka she can show up or not and it doesn't matter cuz it's a big party and you have other options
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:59 AM
0

I was planning on going to XYZ at TIME on DATE and would like you to join me
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:57 AM
6

overthinking, you'd be better off just joking about it, being embarrassed about who you are and what you do is unattractive, just own it
/r/seduction24/09/21 08:35 PM
1

it's a market, improve your market value to get better women
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:22 PM
2

Relationships are about reciprocity. Ask for what you want but don't be afraid to give. If you feel what they are asking you is them being lazy or taking advantage of you tell them no. If they are just busy or need your help or support you can give it.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:48 AM
11

It's ok to have standards
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:44 AM
3

You don't sound like you are her friend and this won't end well.
/r/seduction24/09/21 11:43 AM
18

tell her you want to get to know her and go out with her
/r/seduction24/09/21 03:19 AM
3

if that guy is with you then yes if he's a stranger then no
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:13 AM
18

Stop using online dating it's 13 guys for every girl and a waste of time Embrace the bald Work through your issues with a therapist Go out to social activities and try to meet women with common interests to you Accept that you are not perfect and neither is any woman, learn to accept your "flaws" Continue your journey of self improvement but for yourself and for your health not for women, go to the gym for yourself for your health, read to learn more, dress better so you feel good not so other p…
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:04 AM
9

you are too focused on looks, women can read your body language, that you're nervous, not confident and don't know what you're doing, try to focus on having fun with your friends and if girls come by or around you at the club have a friendly fun chat with them, focus on fun first and being a friendly outgoing guy, once girls see you are a relaxed guy having fun with their friends they will want to join in you could also try saying hi to people on campus to increase your ability to be outgoing an…
/r/seduction23/09/21 04:43 AM
0

Ding ding ding
/r/seduction22/09/21 07:58 AM
5

Tell them they are amazing and pull them closer, tell them they are annoying and push them away. Repeat.
/r/seduction21/09/21 07:29 PM
3

yup, they're both pretty lucky because they are both great people
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:57 PM
3

best is "I didn't ask you about your problems" or "I have a girlfriend"
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:33 AM
1

this girl sounds awful, next
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:31 AM
1

It's non sexual.
/r/seduction19/09/21 04:00 AM
1

Find the local milf bar and hang out
/r/seduction18/09/21 03:54 AM
3

I say sorry I only buy drinks for my friends.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:16 PM
2

Be patient and don't get stuck on one guy. Focus on your life and meeting new people. Go out and have some fun and meet some cool new guys.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:47 AM
1

Remember being rejected means not now but doesn't mean not ever.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:45 AM
1

Be calm and communicate calmly. Try not to be angry or loud. Remember they can understand subtle or nuanced communication more easily than most. Include yourself in teasing like we are giant dorks instead of you are a giant dork. Try to empathize with their sensitivities and your personal issues that you might share so they understand you understand.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:07 AM
3

Travel, celebrity gossip, astrology
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:34 AM
1

therapy?
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:50 PM
1

roll down your window and throw your business card at her
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:57 AM
-1

fuck off
/r/seduction15/09/21 06:56 AM
-6

no because you can become her friend then bang her friends, the more female friends the better
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:42 AM
23

just say this "hi I'm Todd I just started college and I'm looking to make new friends, what's your name, whats your number, who's your daddy, is he rich like me?"
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:41 AM
94

what to do when she flakes? go next, only date people that respect you and your time
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:30 PM
1

sorry for trying to help you
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:21 PM
12

Act like a dick then your entire body will be a dick because you are a dick.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:15 PM
1

I say make out with them before you take them home or go back to their place, keep trying don't give up!
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:04 AM
1

3 way!
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:58 AM
5

I'm 31,F ridiculously hot. pics or it didn't happen
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:54 AM
0

bro all I'm saying is you say hi, this is just excuses for your cowardice, there will be dozens of opportunities to see if this man has balls or not if you go out with him
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:22 AM
1

if introducing yourself to someone makes them a bitch they dodged a bullet
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:45 AM
2

You are making up bizarre and strange rules to restrict your success. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:07 AM
1

Fashion and muscles. Short dudes look ripped way easier. Lift weights
/r/seduction14/09/21 07:23 AM
4

You're over thinking. You can find out if he sucks on the first date. Nothing wrong with making the first move.
/r/seduction14/09/21 07:18 AM
21

no, why don't you try saying hi
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:39 AM
3

Put yourself in their shoes. If someone came up and talked to you how would you feel? If how your behavior is acceptable when you switch roles don't stress it. See if your college has free mental health help no harm in getting some therapy.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:17 AM
1

Probably best to move on. If she was really into you she would be dating you. Find someone who's really into you. Or just go out and have fun you are young you have lots of time.
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:43 AM
2

start by touching people by the elbow when you talk to them, give high fives, fist bumps etc. good place to start
/r/seduction13/09/21 02:29 AM
13

Advice: Don't date single Mom's (unless you are a single Dad). Don't create a trashy workplace love triangle that doesn't exist. Go out and do fun stuff and date women you don't work with.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:14 PM
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I think this is end game but most guys don't have what it takes to pull this off.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:10 PM
1

Her loss
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:22 PM
1

I slept with all of them and now they hate me
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:55 PM
2

" I have no problem on dating apps" -no guy ever just keep practicing, as far as girls go you might want to go to a gay bar or parties that are mostly gay people if you don't want to be super explicit, since most women are straight you should find out if they are gay too before you bother making moves on them if you arn't at an event that is for gay people
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:53 PM
1

Uhhh it's not psychological warfare it's comfort + attraction. That's the entire point of this sub. You are a grade A nut bar.
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:27 PM
1

well do you like her? kinda sounds like you don't, hang out with a girl you have fun with not the "baddest" girl in school who cares
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:52 AM
1

yeah just be chill about it, if she says no just start dating other people and don't make a thing of it
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:49 AM
2

next then
/r/seduction12/09/21 03:48 AM
6

No. But they want other women to want you to prove you are a catch. Only damaged people want you to cheat.
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:50 AM
2

Just ask her out on a date. Don't confess your past or your feelings. Tell her "hey im having fun hanging out with you do you want to go on a date date with me?" No point in over complicating or bringing up baggage. Don't be suprised if she says no.
/r/seduction12/09/21 02:49 AM
2

Be more fun and light hearted. Don't ask as many questions like it's a job interview. Tease her or make a joke. Think of it like having a fun funny conversation with a friend. Tell interesting stories or talk about your passions and mutual interests. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:29 AM
3

Go do something fun and invite her to join you.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:27 AM
1

You didn't answer my questions. You didn't give any advice. You rambled about your life. I don't think you know how to pick up women. I am relaxed you don't need to project emotions onto my comments. I feel great.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:22 AM
1

You should just talk to her. She probably has too much invested in the friendship to want a relationship. So just ask her, "hey do you think there will be anything romantic between us in the future or was that just a dumb idea and I should forget about it?" There are other women out there go out and meet them.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:15 AM
1

https://textgod.com/how-to-tease-a-girl-over-text/ I'm not associated with this site in any way but his advice is pretty good. Just tease her the way you would tease your little sister that you love.
/r/seduction12/09/21 12:02 AM
1

TLDR: Women want status, money, looks, a purpose in life, social skills. In that order. How is this advice? How many women have you picked up and slept with?
/r/seduction11/09/21 11:58 PM
2

I mean realistically all of us have women "out of our league" we aren't going to be dating celebrities or super models for the most part. The average guy won't even get a woman above average because he's average. Growth based mindset focused on improvement will help you attract and bed better women. If you don't work out, dress well, smell nice, if you can't hold an engaging conversation etc. why would a woman who does all those things want to be with you? It's pretty basic stuff, be better than…
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:52 PM
14

It's not a numbers game something is wrong with you. You are scaring people to the point that you get fired and evicted something is very wrong with your behavior. Stop shitting where you eat. YOU are the reason for all the setbacks and your behavior not women. Take some fucking responsibility for your own life. Stop being a creep and work on being a better person. Maybe get some therapy.
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:13 PM
2

I have the opposite problem lol
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:07 PM
1

Be aware of her feelings and emotional state. Focus on connecting in a conversation not steam rolling her with what you want to say. Treat her with respect.
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:22 AM
80

I think if you have the balls to cold approach women in public good for you go get it. I don't see how trying to meet a basic need through doing something that takes guts is cringe worthy.
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:31 AM
2

read textgod.com I am not affiliated with this website in any form
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:09 AM
3

I think she's not attracted to you. If a girl tells you she doesn't have the time it's because 1. She doesn't have the time or 2. She's not into you and wants to let you down easy. I think it's #2 because she thanked you to be polite and not to upset you because some guys can be dicks and act really nasty when being rejected. So what can you do for next time? Try having a conversation and to connect with her emotionally before you ask her out. Work out more, dress better, focus on your passions …
/r/seduction08/09/21 06:01 AM
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I dunno bro this is like saying the sky is blue it's kinda a given that women don't try and guys have to put in all the effort all the time. Unless you are an extremely high value man who has put in years and years of effort working on himself you will be forever chasing women that's the game. Also online dating aps are 13 men for every women so it's like going to a huge sausage fest party.
/r/seduction08/09/21 05:49 AM
2

Solution: Be single til you die. Or be in an open relationship.
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:24 PM
0

read the forum, there's hundreds of posts like this, approaching women in public is fine as long as you are respectful
/r/seduction03/09/21 09:34 AM
2

LOL beauty store shopping, I love it
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:30 AM
1

no tips except go out there and do it, the more you do it the more you will succeed, have an indomitable spirit that nothing can get you down and you will get down and clown
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:49 AM
2

skip getting numbers and do an insta or impromptu date, if she doesn't want to hang out with you when you meet her she probably doesn't want to later, focus on being more attractive, fashion, work out, conversation skills, seduction skills etc.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:43 AM
1

just ask girls out, get used to being rejected, don't take it personally, don't overthink it just do it and be your awesome self and keep improving yourself every day
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:41 AM
2

just ask her out pussy, don't be fancy just say hey i noticed you and want to get to know you are you free this tuesday or thursday can we meet up for a drink? try to make a date then and there, be prepared to be rejected, don't put the ball in her court by giving her your number that is a waste of time
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:22 AM
3

the way I do it is by giving zero fucks, i just say whatever i want to say, but i always respect everyone and keep it positive, just call her a dork, say what are you wearing dork? also try new hobbies, that's interesting and fun for you that you get excited about, find girls who are into similar things as you and talk to them about it
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:42 AM
1

improve yourself so that you get women on that level, if they are rejecting you you need to up your game, get more education, work out more, go see a fashion stylist, practice talking to everyone etc. good luck
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:54 AM
1

maybe stop rating women as numbers and see them as individuals, don't worry so much about the money and see yourself as awesome and work to become more awesome, if you were a hot girl would you want to be with you? what can you do to improve yourself? sounds you need to work on your inner game, you sound very superficial and materialistic no offense, maybe figure out why and if you can change that
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:53 AM
1

seems like a waste of time
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:47 AM
1

edit
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:45 AM
2

this guy has actual game, good advice
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:44 AM
1

yes
/r/seduction15/08/21 04:39 AM
1

can't hurt, lat pull-downs is best back exercise for me
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:50 AM
1

depends how hot you are and how low you are willing to lower your standards
/r/seduction09/08/21 09:04 PM
21

start with squats, bench and overhead press, have someone teach you deadlifts, if you do those 4 you got pretty much every muscle group covered, then you just need to do a bit of stretching
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:47 AM
3

dress well and work out and just talk to whatever dude you might like, flirting is like teasing a good friend, you tell them you like them then that you don't like them repeat, go out and have fun and meet a bunch of guys
/r/seduction02/08/21 08:23 AM
1

she might be busy for real, people do have responsibilities that aren't bangin, but she's always busy with how you look tiger (this message goes out to whoever is reading it)
/r/seduction02/08/21 06:53 AM
4

just drink more, just think of the chick as your dumb little sister that you love and treat her like that, try to connect about what you have in common, try touching her hair if that works she will let you kiss her, the earlier you kiss her the better cuz then she probably wont go home with another dude unless she's a ho, then when night is getting on say you want to go back to my place or you want to get out of here? don't be a pussy approach any woman you want with confidence, next question
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:50 AM
1

I'm old as fuck and I fucked up my shit so many times, I never give up and always improving, gained 25lb of muscle last 2 years and got a finance certification course to start a new career last year, don't give up it's never too late til you're dead
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:47 AM
1

TLDR: Got laid want to brag. Be cool, just keep hitting on other women and do your thing with her.
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:31 AM
2

I would say be friends with cool girls who don't suck and be selective about who you are good friends with. Also girls know girls they can introduce you to...
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:26 AM
6

go out more
/r/seduction27/07/21 09:08 AM
1

I would just chill and focus your energy on more productive things like hobbies and career. If he's talking to you 3 times a day that's a lot already.
/r/seduction27/07/21 04:55 AM
12

date more women or be busier
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:06 PM
1

I know I gained 25 lb of muscle doing calisthenics during covid, I literally said or do pushups
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:34 PM
57

TLDR: lift heavy things a bunch of times or do pushups
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:49 PM
2

it depends on the vibe, I would say the longer you wait to ask a woman out or try to date her the worse it will end, try having conversations not about sex where you connect on common interests but be a little edgy/flirty, if things are going well ask her out
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:32 PM
1

you lead, if you wait for her to make the moves you could die a virgin
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:28 PM
1

how are you 23 and have a previous porn addiction for 14 years? something is seriously wrong here, I recommend therapy
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:27 PM
0

no you should be afraid she doesn't have a boyfriend and then wants you to be hers and then you get married and have 3 kids and then she gets a boyfriend, but since you are married with no prenup because you were in love you now work a great job but are broke because you are paying for two households not to mention your oldest daughters rehab because she is addicted to meth, that's what you should be really afraid of
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:23 PM
4

wtf are you talking about? prime age for man is 25-46, once you pass your mid 40's then the number of women who want to date you will shrink but if you have status/money/power/fame you can keep banging 19 year olds til you die at 99 if you want
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:12 PM
5

name doesn't check out
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:10 PM
7

TLDR: guy gets weird, gets rejected
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:01 PM
1

it's just a joke
/r/seduction25/07/21 08:55 PM
8

i don't try to use dancing to pickup women, i use dancing with women to dance with women, when I want to pickup women i use conversation
/r/seduction25/07/21 11:04 AM
6

dancefloor or if shes standing right next to the dancefloor or if you're at the bar and she says something like "i really love dancing"
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:59 AM
3

you're overthinking it, forget this loser, next
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:57 AM
1

TLDR: get women drunk on wine and invite them back to your place to have more wine/sex
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:53 AM
1

the best cheat code is being rich
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:44 AM
1

just send her a snap back half the time
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:42 AM
1

expect to get nothing and waste your time with a bunch of attention whores, I'm a decent looking guy who has no problem meeting and bedding women in person but when you go on tinder/bumble/hinge/whatever you are in for a black-hole of time wasting with no rewards do yourself a favor and join some social clubs that you would enjoy that will have women or just talk to women out and about also nerds run the world now and everyone is a nerd if you are trolling for pussy on reddit by pretending that …
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:41 AM
1

text her this "I heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who heard it from another that you wanted to meet up with me and eat grilled cheese"
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:38 AM
2

you can call social services or the police and say your ex gf called you out of the blue after a year and a half and said she is worried her current boyfriend is going to kill her
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:35 AM
1

TLDR: "Nigga be a leader not a follower" -Master P
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:32 AM
1

answer, don't bother, just send her one of these 2 texts "hey I'm just finishing a meeting near yours, do you want to grab a drink in an hour?" "drinks tuesday or thursday?" don't invite her out on friday or saturday unless she's dtf text your mom instead she will appreciate it
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:30 AM
10

you dance or ask them to dance, offer her your hand and if she takes it swing her around and dip her... kids these days also you can post up at the bar and drink and let the ladies come to you
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:27 AM
2

just take off your shirt and lift weights at your buddies house, also wouldn't recommend dating a friends sister unless you want to marry her or he's not that good of a friend
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:24 AM
7

he who dares my son! life tip: wear condoms when you fuck and don't give strange women oral to reduce your risk of stds
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:21 AM
2

she rejects you, you become her friend, then you get invited to parties/meet her friends if you want an NSA vibe you want to use what I said about boyfriends, if you want a woman who will not cheat on you and a LTR then you are dead in the water if she says she has a boyfriend
/r/seduction25/07/21 02:11 AM
3

Dating aps are a waste of time, not even toilet reading worthy.
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:53 AM
3

Sounds like they just trying to use you. Might as well just go to the bar and hit on women there.
/r/seduction22/07/21 10:03 PM
2

yes you messed up but it's recoverable, first you shouldn't talk about watching women and what they are doing that is creepy and makes them feel unsafe the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish try talking about what is going on at the gym eg. "did you hear they have kickboxing classes here?" or something you are doing related to fitness, eg. "have you ever been to the rock climbing gym nearby? it's a fun workout" also if you are bombing hard you can say something like "sorry if I'm comi…
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:19 PM
1

Stop going to the bar start going to the gym.
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:09 PM
5

At first I saw this post and I was like a dude got 2k matches in a few months? He must be a golden god! More proof to men why online dating is a waste of time. She has 2k matches and you have 4. Odds you get a date? 0.01% given the flakes and women just looking for attention Also why should someone pay your phone bill? I would recommend volunteering at a bunch of different places and go to social clubs that you enjoy. You will probably find a like minded man that way.
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:06 PM
1

disturbing scenario, hope I can forget these words and sleep tonight
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:40 PM
1

oh then forget about her and go to a social club and talk to women there
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:39 PM
2

If she says "oh sorry I have a boyfriend" you can say I didn't ask you about your problems Oh that's ok I have a girlfriend If a girl says something stupid or offensive you can call it out or make a joke of it. eg. Well that's just rude I prefer to be short, makes it easier to hide from the cops I would say keep approaching all women, you never know, maybe she has friends you can meet or is going to a party you can join etc.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:56 PM
1

stop using emojis and go up to her in a class and say hi and have a regular conversation, then when you are vibing tell her you are going to check out a restaurant/coffee shop/punk show/whatever after class and ask her if she wants to join you
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:47 PM
1

since sex generally is a marketplace where people usually don't date below their value women who have lower self esteem are more likely to have sex with you because they value themselves less than they are worth men are the opposite because it makes them less confident and confidence is important for attracting and bedding women
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:44 PM
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not enough information, could be an indication of incompatibility, I personally don't believe in positive and negative mindset, I believe that someone says someone else has a negative attitude when that person wants something different than them probably the best thing to do is try to connect with that person over common interest instead of flirting at first, get to know their vibe better and decide if that's the type of woman you want to flirt with
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:33 PM
2

this really isn't a question about dating? friendship first dating is a bad idea because women will become invested in the friendship and won't want to date you because they will lose the benefits of the friendship as far as having a basic conversation just try and fail
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:27 PM
2

I would say just keep going, keep meeting new girls, you will inevitably fuck things up but once you wreck things with one girl just move on to the next girl and don't stress it.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:05 AM
5

You are wasting your time. Meet other women and go make friends. I would ghost her.
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:35 AM
2

Ok let's break this down. There are 2 reasons to feel jealous. You have a reason to be jealous You are being irrationally jealous I think you had reasons to be jealous. Mainly that you did not feel secure in your relationship. She went out and fucked 2 dudes right after you broke up. Sounds like she wasn't very committed to you or interested in a long term relationship with you. Also sounds like maybe your relationship didn't have the best communication and intimacy. What can you do for future r…
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:24 AM
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"Until then, I was pretty 50/50 about it all" You literally said you weren't that into her. So who cares? You had some fun but you didn't fuck, happens all the time. Just hit on some other women keep having fun and don't even think about this chick. Also don't bang chicks who are drunk out of their mind unless you want to go to jail on rape charges. Be careful.
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:00 AM
2

TROLL, BAN
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:45 AM
0

well if you are not willing to improve yourself you should lower your standards, hit on uglier and fatter chicks
/r/seduction17/07/21 11:57 PM
1

first date can't flake that's all there is to it, it's like that saying it beings the way it ends
/r/seduction17/07/21 11:50 PM
5

fuck up some commas
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:27 PM
4

do you want to be a mclovin celebrity or get laid?
/r/seduction17/07/21 08:26 PM
20

lose the McLovin t-shirt and dress better
/r/seduction17/07/21 10:06 AM
15

gym, laundry, break their hearts, repeat
/r/seduction17/07/21 09:26 AM
1

sounds like you need to wait a year then hit her up and see if she's single then, until then go pick up some other women, don't ask if they have a boyfriend and if they tell you they have a boyfriend say "I didn't ask you about your problems"
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:42 AM
4

I think to optimize efficiency you need to hire some lookalikes and have a script they can follow to lock it down for you.
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:40 AM
1

I never give 2nd chances if they flake on first date. Also for a reschedule or date setup I give them 2 day options so I don't seem like a loser who has no life, and I never give them friday or saturday unless I know they will fuck 100%. Eg. "I'm free tuesday or thursday next week"
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:37 AM
2

wtf
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:32 AM
2

my advice is dress really well, if you look successful it will help avoid a lot of negative stereotypes that might be associated with you because of your skin color
/r/seduction17/07/21 12:10 AM
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cheap, experiential, where you can talk, touch and play, something casual and lasting 2 hours or less is ideal eg. pool, mini golf, picnic
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:56 PM
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work on improving yourself, if you are more confident in yourself you will be looking for woman that has more to offer than just looks, i'd say 70% of women from 18-28 are attractive enough, so being good looking really isn't that impressive personally I'm only impressed if she is a professional athlete or really into power-lifting or something like that because that mean she has committed to something, that is impressive, but having hot parents? that don't impress me much it's kinda like what y…
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:32 PM
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yeah cuz every post is the same dumb question and the mods don't do a great job, we need a sticky that covers basics and to block a lot more posts
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:26 PM
2

make eye contact before you approach
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:21 PM
10

TLDR: Don't do online dating
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:18 PM
0

Fool proof way to get a girls #
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:04 PM
1

doesn't matter where you go, you just gotta communicate this to the women, I would just tell them you are not looking for anything serious and avoid the term friends with benefits that will probably make life easier for you
/r/seduction16/07/21 07:58 PM
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"What should I do when situation like this happens again" LOLOLOL thanks for the laugh bro
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:44 AM
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I think you are reading too much into this, people will often switch between conversation topics with people they are comfortable with, convo could go something like "you want to get a drink someplace?" "i'm getting vaxed" "oh that's good, I got mine too" "do you know the new whiskey bar? I want to check it out" like why over-complicate things
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:51 AM
1

find a woman that's not that into dicks? everyone has an average sized dick that's what makes it average, this is not a real problem
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:30 AM
1

money
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:28 AM
9

I never overcame it I just feel the bad feelings and do it anyways
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:09 AM
3

you just don't know what you are talking about and are contradicting yourself I'm not having a debate with you it's a waste of my time
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:25 AM
1

a lot of morons posting about dating co-workers lately, stop trying to fuck your co-workers, go to a social club or a bar or a coffee shop and meet women you don't work with all day what it means? she's fucking the boss and not going to fuck you
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:17 AM
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Restart texts. You suck HELLO I"M BACK IN TOWN Casual continuation of previous conversation Leaving... I found out your secret Just saying hey in-case you got rich saw something stupid and thought of you
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:12 AM
7

This post is a walking contradiction. "It's not game, it's conversation skills." But part of game is conversation skills. Ability to deflect rejections/tests, connect emotionally etc. "It's not being alpha, it's being physically attractive." So working out and having muscles must be for beta males? "It's not game it's being able to connect emotionally." What? You think you read one book and know what you are talking about, you don't, stop posting and start reading.
/r/seduction16/07/21 12:00 AM
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Because online dating is a trash heap, why don't you volunteer or join groups where interesting women will be. Also if you want a cool woman make sure you are cool yourself, water meets it's own level in dating.
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:53 PM
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TLDR: I have become an adult with healthy boundaries that doesn't let people walk over me and abuse me.
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:49 PM
2

sounds like she's busy at work, give her some space and hit her up when she's less busy, don't be so serious
/r/seduction15/07/21 10:30 AM
1

find more options so you aren't hanging on to one woman
/r/seduction15/07/21 10:27 AM
1

It's not that bad really. Think about it this way. You can waste your time trying to get with some chick that doesn't really want or respect you OR you can put your energy into finding an amazing beautiful woman who really wants to be with you. There's more fish in the sea go get em!
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:21 AM
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She sounds like a user. She takes what she wants from you when she needs it and manipulates you to get what she wants. Find some other woman and forget about fucking her. Sounds like the friendship is already ruined. Good luck.
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:13 AM
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I would say dress well, have good posture, work out, be positive all the time, go out there and get it man, I challenge you to hit on 3 woman before august, we all have disadvantages in life but the best thing to do is rise above them and live your best life I think searching for something to bring you down is a bad way to go about dating. Look for opportunity to meet new women and have great conversations where you find out what you have in common with that woman and find what value she adds to…
/r/seduction15/07/21 08:10 AM
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just pretend they are your little sister and her annoying dumb friends, here's a couple openers for you, in order of sanity hey I can only stay for a minute but I just wanted to say I love your hat did you see my buddy Tim come in? he always wears a fedora *eye roll* quick question, is it cheating if you just did it to get a promotion? is it ladies night? or is it laid (do sex pumping motion) e's (hold up a bag of pills) night? glhf
/r/seduction15/07/21 06:22 AM
1

I give you two choices choose your own adventure if she's interested she will be a polite person and reply to this, if she's not interested she won't reply your chance is already dead
/r/seduction15/07/21 06:06 AM
3

Just send her a text saying "I hope everything is ok, I didn't get a response to our date confirmation so I'm going to do something with friends that night instead" boom, done, sorted, next question
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:45 AM
1

I think you need to stop taking yourself so seriously. You aren't that cool and important and you are just another human being. Don't do anything that would constitute as harassment and you should be fine. Just go for it.
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:31 AM
1

well said
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:39 PM
1

no be at a bar with a drink lol
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:38 PM
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just send an unsolicited dick pic to yourself and go next, try meeting women in person, makes you seem more attractive and works better
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:16 AM
1

don't date women at work unless you don't care if you lose your job
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:14 AM
2

women will bang whatever is the best option available to them so you just have to be the best option, a study by ok cupid noted that women start to be less interested in men over 46 no matter what age they are, lift weights, dress well, make money and get laid, just gonna have to work a bit harder than when you were 25
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:11 AM
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false, most dudes are bad with women and bring you down solo is easy mode, retarded friends that ruin your shit is hard mode
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:52 AM
0

look good, post up at bar where people come to get drinks, have them hit on you
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:51 AM
2

try posting up at a popular bar when your feet hurt and let them come to you, if you put this much energy in a sales job you can get rich and the women will chase you
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:30 AM
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I've been celibate, I've lived with women, I've been in committed relationships and I've been the guy who hooks up with chicks at the bar every Friday and to answer your question, yeah it's more effort than it's worth but we are biologically programmed to want sex really bad. In this scenario the best thing for you to do is focus on your health, social life, friends, family, money and your career and when you are successful the women will chase you.
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:11 AM
1

only invite her to large gatherings where she is not the focus but could be cool if she showed up and if she doesn't show up after you invite her a couple times, delete her number from your phone
/r/seduction14/07/21 01:03 AM
9

name doesn't check out
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:22 AM
33

just bring another girl, problem solved
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:18 AM
33

when in doubt whip it out
/r/seduction13/07/21 09:47 AM
5

if she's hot why don't you bang her? keep dating other women and don't get attached
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:47 AM
1

when in doubt whip it out, have you tried saying hi? women/babes are humans too just try to be relaxed and always have a positive mental attitude no matter what, just think of you're having a conversation with your annoying little sister that you love, try to find out what you have in common and like to talk about and talk about that don't tell them about your heroin addiction
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:28 AM
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remember the goal isn't to be rejected as much as possible it's to become a better man that women want but you do it for yourself so you have a good life
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:09 AM
1

yeah don't do roids, just do calisthenics at home it's free that's what I did and I put on 25lb of muscle during covid and women do check me out a lot more, check out bully juice and mad fit on youtube they have good routines.
/r/seduction12/07/21 05:07 AM
12

lol this guy needs a youtube channel
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:30 AM
1

I had sex with a really hot chick in her friends living room, met her outside a bar at night. You don't have to approach women in the street. You can meet women at events, parties, social gatherings etc. This method works for people it works for, it's not for everyone. You sound like your standards are too high and you don't want to do it so I would just not bother with cold street approaches if I were you and just hit on women in a more social setting.
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:57 PM
2

try extending the conversation, ask them where a good place to eat is nearby or something or engage them with what is going on at the park, game essentially is about finding out what you have in common with a woman, making her feel comfortable and exciting her emotionally, try to have a longer conversation and see if you can connect on some common ground curious about the cold showers and stopping masturbating, why does this make you less anxious?
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:46 PM
1

you can just tell him "I want to go down on you", as far as technique google.com, take your time and keep your expectations low
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:41 PM
1

Join a social club, say hi to people when you are passing them on the street, try to engage check-out people at stores with conversation etc.
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:36 PM
1

Dating a co-worker is a risky move. If you don't care about your job and just work at a McDonald's or something it's not a problem. If you like your job and want to keep it having a relationship with a co-worker is a bad idea because when you break up you will be stuck together. Or even worse what happens if she turns out to be a nut job and when you break up she says you harassed her? Definitely disclose any relationship to management as well in case of conflicts of interest. Personally I don't…
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:34 PM
4

This is bad advice. The two things every dude who is not succeeding should do is improve himself and lower his standards. The dating market is a market and when you meet someone who is on the same level as you that is when you will succeed. Approaching a shit load of people does not guarantee success. A hideous loser could approach hot chicks all day for 30 years and get turned down by every single one. Genetics and luck are the baseline but you decide where to move from that baseline. Not being…
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:24 PM
2

get drunk
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:48 AM
1

find what you have in common with her its easy to talk about things you are both interested in, then just do lots of things and meet lots of people, it's more fun to be an interesting person than to pretend to be one
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:43 AM
1

reddit needs an automatic paragraph after a certain number of words
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:38 AM
1

yeah tinder is a hot bag of garbage, if you spent 1 hour a week on tinder vs 1 hour going to a few grocery stores and hitting on the checkout girl I bet at the end of the month the checkout guy would have a date and the tinder guy wouldn't
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:01 PM
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yeah I guess it depends on circumstances, but online dating is a hot bag of garbage and age restrictions just makes things harder, its not like a bunch of hot women in their 20s are cruising the internet for dudes in their 50's a 50 year old guy who wants to meet 20 year old women has to make it happen, probably what you are referring to is sugar daddy/baby sites which the dude is better off with a prostitute at that point other peoples hangups or preferences about age shouldn't stop men from tr…
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:50 PM
1

try saying hit to everyone you pass on the street to be better at saying hi to strangers
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:15 PM
3

this is bad advice, online dating is even worse for age discrimination, obviously the older you get the fewer young woman will be interested in you so you have to be prepared for more rejection, but as long as you are approaching and communicating with respect for that person and treating them with decency it's ok to be occasionally be a "creep"
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:12 PM
1

Well according to a study done by OK cupid women are most attracted to men who are slightly older than them at all age ranges and at around 46 men start to fall off in attractiveness. Try thinking about it from the woman's perspective. If you were that woman why should be interested in you and what do you have to offer? Go for it and if you are getting rejected a lot you need to improve yourself or lower your standards.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:09 PM
2

yeah irresponsible dog ownership = chocolate cake is bad fuck off
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:59 PM
2

it's a fig until then
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:58 PM
2

Air BNB? Hotel?
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:14 AM
0

Yeah just ask her what her name is and ask her out.
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:12 AM
2

I mean most one night stands to clarify. I'm advising this guy to get into a relationship to meet his needs.
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:11 AM
3

working out doesn't help me personally, best things I have found are taking action right away and having an idea of what you want to say when you approach, remember too that you are just going to have a conversation with a human being with no expectations and if something good happens great and if they are a rude jerk you can still be polite and just walk away nothing lost
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:10 AM
1

try joining a social club that does an activity you enjoy
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:09 AM
3

can people use paragraphs please
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:07 AM
2

I'd say the key is to not get too caught up in reading about it and spend more time doing it. If you read about pickup for an hour a week and are out hitting on women for 5 hours a week you are doing it right. If you are reading about it for 5 hours a week and hitting on women for 1 hour a week you are wasting your time.
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:07 AM
0

learning text game to fuck is like learning to play the violin to be good at guitar, sure you can do it but it's a mostly pointless skill for the activity
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:05 AM
5

don't get a dog to get laid unless you really want a dog for itself, this is a terrible idea
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:02 AM
1

have parties, invite women you meet to parties
/r/seduction07/07/21 04:02 AM
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Ask him out on a date. "Hey do you want to go on a date with me? I know we work together so if you don't want to that's cool we can continue our business relationship without getting weird, no pressure."
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:59 AM
1

I wouldn't stress it honestly, I think most women are bad in bed and we do all the effort anyways. So really what's the fucking difference between you and me? Not much. If you want to do special sex shit then get in a relationship.
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:56 AM
0

my advice for you would be use paragraphs
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:42 AM
2

I mean it's always better to be closer, being further away will ruin chances you had to get laid sometimes. You can always go back to her place too which is actually preferable because it's easier for you to leave and if she's a psycho she doesn't know where you live.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:10 PM
10

Introduce yourself to a girl you are interested in. Try to have a friendly conversation find out what you have in common with her. Flirt Touch her arm when you talk to her to create a physical connection If things are going well you can try touching her hair, if she's ok with that she will probably kiss you Kiss her Stay friendly and keep flirting and having good conversation, don't worry too much about kissing her a lot or become clingy Ask her to leave with you As far as dancing goes, you can …
/r/seduction06/07/21 08:06 AM
1

sounds like you have some serious personal issues, maybe go see a therapist? something is obviously wrong if you can't maintain any friendships over a 10 year period, maybe try going to a social club that is something you enjoy to meet friends/women that you have something in common with, good luck
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:27 PM
2

you might want to frame it as a date since those are your intentions and dragging out as an awkward is she, isn't she, does she even know this is a date? situation could be unpleasant try something like "hey are you free friday? I need a hot date for the bazaar to help me pat all the puppies at the dog show or if you're busy friday we could get lunch on tuesday?" that way if she's busy friday you arn't screwed and if she's interested she will give you another option if shes busy both days
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:23 PM
1

LOL 20 lbs of Elk meat wtf
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:09 PM
1

cuz you don't use paragraphs and just type in one big block
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:07 PM
1

ask her to go do something with you and if she turns you down or flakes out next
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:04 PM
-1

loser attitude imo
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:03 PM
1

if you are confident and can dress well and have a good job you don't have to exercise to get laid
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:02 PM
1

if your main goal is to get laid dressing well, working out and being confident is most important but being rich or successful will help, let's be real most of us have a conversation with the woman before we fuck her and if you are a successful guy with a lot going for you she will want you more
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:02 PM
1

My go-to is find another girl, one that's into me.
/r/seduction05/07/21 04:29 PM
3

Here's some advice, don't take advice from women on how to pickup women because women will tell you what they think they want or what they think is socially acceptable to say not what they really want. I'll give you some beach openers. Hey is there a cafe around here? My friends and I were going to play some frisbee do you want to join us? Did you see that person doing XYZ? I've never been to this beach before it's nice Hi If a woman is attracted to you and open to socializing and you can hold a…
/r/seduction05/07/21 04:26 PM
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I think the biggest problem of tinder is your return on your time. It wastes your time by making it difficult to easily match with people There are a lot of women just on tinder for validation who also waste your time You have to go meet up with that person just to catch their vibe where if you met in person you already know what that person is like a lot more. You are better off joining a social club, going to a bar, chatting up a checkout girl, hosting parties or putting a message in a bottle …
/r/seduction05/07/21 03:51 PM
1

TLDR: get paid get laid
/r/seduction04/07/21 01:31 PM
1

it's a very complicated question that i'm not interested in taking the time to answer, but i respect you enough to tell you i'm not going to explain what i said, have a nice day
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:25 PM
1

texting girls is a waste of time unless it's to meet up anyways or if you don't know her and you're trying to build comfort, in this case obviously we are just reminding her who we are and having her save our contact in her phone
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:24 PM
1

where do you work, why are you hitting on women at your job are they customers or coworkers, how old you are, where you live, what hobbies you have
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:22 PM
1

yeah I mean what I said is just a general format you can say whatever the fuck you want people are focusing too much on my wording and not the idea
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:39 PM
1

I'm going to use all these Costanza strategies
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:38 PM
1

it's only cringe cuz I said pro tip
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:37 PM
2

I'm not saying what he said doesn't have some validity I'm just saying that if you have to go around being a lying and manipulating then you are not holding the frame you are pretending to hold the frame. I just don't think his strategies overall are that good. What do women really want? Well that depends on the woman, but low quality damaged women will obviously respond to low quality damaged strategies. I think my whole point is just because something is a strategy that works does not make it …
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:35 PM
1

money, looks, social skills, real world skills, passion for life, good family etc. I don't think its very subjective but there are billions of people and different people are attracted to different things
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:16 PM
1

Not enough information but I'm sure you will succeed. Keep trying!
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:39 AM
9

I only fuck in a suit and tie.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:35 AM
3

She paid you a compliment doesn't mean she wants to fuck. You are trying, keep trying, move on to the next chick and forget her.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:35 AM
2

Just keep waving and saying hi, be cool and don't stress 1 rejection, try to have a nice conversation and get to know her. You can ask her out again later if she didn't tell you not to ask her out again.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:31 AM
1

You have to ask her to commit to you and if she doesn't then it's over no sex no hanging out nothing. That's pretty much the only way.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:30 AM
0

pro tip, send her a text right away and be like "hey this is YourName, was fun meeting you tonight, save my number in the trouble makers section"
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:23 AM
8

think about it this way, don't feel guilty
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:21 AM
26

Why slam your hand when you can slam your dick
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:21 AM
2

False, you just make baseless assumptions about me. I'm saying you're a loser if you can't apologize and keep two side women and lie to your girlfriend/wife. That makes you a low value man pretending to be a high value man. Not everything he says is incorrect or shouldn't be done but a lot of what he's saying is kinda pathetic.
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:03 AM
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I said this guy is an insecure emotional manipulator. I didn't say his strategies couldn't work. I just think his strategies are inferior to other strategies. His tactics just seem childish and kinda like he's a loser that figured out he can manipulate woman. If you are a man of value women will always be attracted to you and you don't have to play childish games like not saying sorry.
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:50 AM
37

This sounds like an insecure emotional manipulator pretending to be an alpha when he's not imo.
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:30 AM
15

no shit, don't do anything without communication and consent
/r/seduction30/06/21 10:35 AM
1

try to start up an interesting conversation about something going on in the world or your life or on a topic she might be interested in, then after the conversation is going well say "hey you seem pretty cool and it would be fun to get to know you more... *insert invitation to date or activity here* OR *insert getting her phone number* side note: use this conversation to see if she actually is cool or if she just sucks, if she sucks you don't have to ask her out, be the prize
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:43 AM
7

buy her a mask and hit it doggystyle
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:39 AM
0

if you want to be her friend forget it if you want to end your friendship and date knowing it will probably not work out tell her this "Hey I know you just broke up with your boyfriend buuut I've been realizing how amazing of a catch you are from talking to you lately and I think we should go out on a date with each other, I know it sounds crazy, what do you think?" (preferably tell her in person or on the phone don't tell her via text) I mean you could try to be subtle but it doesn't sound like…
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:38 AM
6

full package = chicks with dicks?
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:34 AM
3

social club, coffee shop, street, book store etc.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:32 AM
2

LOL WTF, keep going, I go to therapy too it's good advice
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:32 AM
2

remember if you get dumped she's doing you a favor so you can go find someone hotter and younger
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:30 AM
38

fake news
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:29 AM
1

uhh is there any other reason to learn game?
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:27 AM
1

vaginas are more valuable than penises life ain't fair, I do agree there are more entitled women in the dating game but I could be biased cuz I am a straight man that dates women
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:26 AM
5

This is how I do it Be friendly, touch them on the back of the arm, try to find common interests and have a good conversation Flirt Touch their hair and see how they react, it's very personal to touch a woman's hair and you will be able to tell if she wants to kiss you from that Go for the kiss as soon as possible if you only learn one thing from this comment it's this point, it sets a tone of we are not friends I want to fuck you, first kiss can just be a quick friendly peck doesn't have to be …
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:43 AM
1

yes I believe both sexes have become extremely entitled and unrealistic and that's why more people are single than ever
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:34 AM
1

have more options, set boundaries for yourself and follow through
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:29 AM
9

it's about emotional experience (spank her, pull her hair, ask her what turns her on and do it) not about how big your dick is, if you are really small you gotta double down on the oral sex and don't be afraid to bring in vibrators or dildos, remember if she's having orgasms she won't care how big it is and many women don't even have orgasms from penetration alone anyways
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:27 AM
1

years of experience or even decades, lots of practice and hard work
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:24 AM
3

lower your standards, one day at a time, put one foot in front of the other, success builds upon success
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:23 AM
1

I would argue top women don't need to work quite as hard as us but they do have to add value besides just being good looking if they want a top tier man, maybe it's 30% as hard as being a top tier man but it's still a lot of work and their window of opportunity is only 10 years 15 years if they are exceptional
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:23 AM
5

it's not awkward you are a man you went for what you wanted you didn't get it but fuck the world you will find someone better!
/r/seduction29/06/21 11:03 PM
17

Flirting 101 Friendly tease and push the person away from you, ignore them don't give them attention Say something nice and pull them towards you, pay attention to them, make them feel good Repeat When I say push and pull I don't mean literally but sometimes it can be literally, use your judgement and respect others boundaries. Edit: Thanks for the silver
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:58 PM
8

This story demonstrates that dating multiple women at the same time is a good strategy but also 5 dates in one day is just too much. Also sounds a bit made up but who knows/cares.
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:38 PM
1

I mean it's not enough evidence to prove she's more than not that interested, just don't over invest, good luck
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:52 PM
0

in terms of fatter, uglier, more annoying, broke, dumb and messed up women, choose 3
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:04 AM
1

seems like overkill in effort for just trying to bang, I would try going out more and hitting on more women also if she has a friend staying at her place you could say "oh I can come with you guys or we can hang out another night" that might get you in if she really wants to bang
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:57 AM
3

it means she wants to fuck
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:39 AM
1

text back "wrong number", close your phone really fast and block her number then call up your friends and go play halo
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:38 AM
2

not enough info, start saying hi to strangers, then having conversation with strangers, then having conversation with women, then asking women out
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:37 AM
1

well I think the key to one night stands is to be hot so lift weights 3-5 times a week and try to dress better also don't have dates, go to the bar, post up at a busy bar near where you live and wait for hot chicks to come by, engage them in flirtatious conversation, try to make out with them, build sexual tension through more flirtation and good conversation, invite them back to your place also having lower expectations could help too if women feel pressure or neediness they will find it a turn…
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:31 AM
1

this guy doesn't respect you, next
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:26 AM
8

say hi to everyone you walk by on the street start having conversations with all strangers even ones you don't want to bang get a canned line so you know exactly what to say to open a woman, eg. do you know if there is a starbucks around here become the friendly guy that can talk to strangers everywhere even hot chicks get more ass than a toilet seat
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:24 AM
1

keep lowering your standards til you can get laid
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:21 AM
2

Just get 2 5s that's a ten booyeah math. Quickest way to get laid is lower your standards. Plus it boosts the confidence.
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:41 AM
2

I think it means she's not that interested. If you were a celebrity she wouldn't text you and be like oh I'm too tired. She's still somewhat interested so keeping you on the back burner as an option if her better options don't work out. I say if you have other options date them instead. Only invite her out one more time to something you are already doing. Don't plan a date for her just invite her to something impromptu eg. you are going to a bar with some friends and you text her a couple hours …
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:49 PM
9

means go hit on more girls
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:46 PM
1

you care too much about one woman who's not your girlfriend or wife and you gonna get burned how to care and not care at the same time? it's called flirting, you pull them in then push them away, repeat if dating is too tiring for you have you thought of taking up power napping? it takes almost no effort don't invest emotionally, money, time, energy etc. into a woman who's not investing in you, yeah you can take her out for a cheap lunch or make her dinner once or give it a shot one time but if …
/r/seduction27/06/21 09:29 PM
1

well let's assume we are talking about romantic kissing, there are 100's of reasons someone would kiss someone attraction has to do with value you add, most women have at least a few options with other men and why are you the best option? is it because you dress well and are tall? is it because you are fun and outgoing and always have a positive attitude? is it because you can fix things? is it because you like to play frisbee golf and they do too? attraction + comfort = sex so if your end game …
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:12 PM
5

what value do you add? why should someone kiss you? why don't you do something to help other people and improve yourself instead of having a pity party ugly, bald, stupid, fat men get kissed and laid all day every day maybe not with the most beautiful women in the world, try lowering your standards and not thinking of yourself, the world doesn't owe you shit, you have to earn it
/r/seduction26/06/21 02:59 AM
1

it's a general tip not a tip for his specific situation, read what I wrote again
/r/seduction25/06/21 02:22 PM
1

text her but don't expect anything to happen you waited too long
/r/seduction23/06/21 06:06 AM
7

you looking for a reason to lose instead of improving yourself, I had a friend in university who was maybe 5'8 who worked out all the time and was super social and met a lot of girls, yeah life isn't fair but it is what you make it
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:29 AM
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physical 16-23, social/dating 25-46
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:27 AM
1

just invest 50% of what she invests in you, if she calls you twice a week you call her once a week, etc. if she becomes committed to you as your girlfriend you can invest equally
/r/seduction23/06/21 01:19 AM
3

I wouldn't read too much into it. Saying I have a boyfriend can mean two things. She has a boyfriend and is not interested She doesn't have a boyfriend and is not interested either way she's not interested, next if you are just trying to get laid at a bar or party if she says I have a boyfriend you can say "I didn't ask you about your problems" or "I have a girlfriend"
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:59 AM
14

if a friend is giving you trouble just playfully say one of these lines "is she always like this?" "now we know why we can't take her anywhere nice"
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:36 PM
3

just ask her on a date, if she says sorry i'm gay say no problem and find another girl it's not that hard
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:34 PM
2

treat her like the girls you don't like, you already know what to do just because she is hot doesn't mean you should play the game any different, don't over invest and keep looking for other women
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:32 PM
1

investing too much too soon is a very common mistake men make, just keep moving forward nothing to be done about this one
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:49 PM
36

online dating aps have become worse and worse over the years its a huge sausage fest with no benefit to men as far as time and effort for reward there's 13 men on dating aps for every 1 women, not the kind of party you'd want to go to
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:33 PM
2

yeah a lot of guys want dating aps to work because it's less scary fear of rejection than talking to someone in person but they just don't work well for 99% of men, yes there is that 1 in 10,000 that met his wife or the guy who is super hot that gets laid from it but for most of us we need to do the old fashioned painful way of real rejection in person to succeed
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:28 AM
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i just nope everyone and save the hot girls instagrams, got like a hundred so far, maybe i will get around to making an instagram account one day I say dating aps are a huge waste of time and that if you just spend that time working out and trying to pick up cashiers or girls in coffee shops you will be spending your time 100X more efficiently, no word of a lie it is 100 times more effective to work out and hit on girls irl than to use dating aps, unless you look like a gorgeous model then datin…
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:54 AM
8

you only get one shot do not miss your chance to blow, turns out she's only 15 oh no! you lose yourself in the jail cell your cell mate is your new date he's named dave, he's irate, oh oh oh keep up the good work sir, also wtf you thought a 15 year old was 35 was she chain smoking and had a full sleeve?
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:51 AM
1

lol, making out with women is beta, fuck off, one person disagrees with you and you start calling them names go fuck yourself
/r/seduction21/06/21 04:16 AM
1

personal experience that the opposite of this advice has gotten me and my friends laid numerous times
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:27 PM
0

this isn't advice
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:12 PM
5

as someone who has picked up a lot of women at bars my advice is Talk to them a lot and get to know them so they are comfortable with you, try to tease them a bit and find out what you have in common When it seems appropriate or the night is winding down ask them back to your place While it is good to kiss her as soon as possible, you don't need to keep kissing/making out or escalating physically while at the bar if you just keep touching her side or being flirty or playful when she agrees to go…
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:09 PM
1

Disagree 100%
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:05 PM
1

just go out at night to where young people are or ask your friends if they know anyone they can hook you up with, if you are looking for a relationship ask the girls that you meet at night to go out with you for lunch sometime, good low pressure date to find out if the chick is good girlfriend material over lunch
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:08 AM
2

unless you really think she's something special best thing to do is meet more women and stop wasting your time writing novels about a friend who may or may not like you if you do think she is something special then just invite her over to your place for some drinks then go for the kiss when the time is right and if it doesn't work out just blame it on the drugs
/r/seduction16/06/21 06:04 AM
1

hire a sex worker? Or get a fuck buddy that you're not that into but can help you out when you having a dry spell
/r/seduction16/06/21 05:52 AM
4

women can look older than they are for sure, good on you for taking a chance, can't win em all
/r/seduction15/06/21 10:16 PM
1

she's not interested, focus on improving yourself and find someone else
/r/seduction15/06/21 08:32 PM
1

just don't over invest in this girl or expect much
/r/seduction15/06/21 07:42 PM
0

giving 0 fucks
/r/seduction14/06/21 05:00 AM
1

no doubt but its his personality not his looks
/r/seduction09/06/21 03:17 PM
1

ok go to a club with a guy who looks like danny devito and a guy who looks like a model and tell me which guy can pull a girl and get laid first, it's not bullshit it's true all those other factors can help you have a one night stand but if you are looking for sex with 0 strings attached and you could only have one of those things looks would be what you want unless you want to have sex with hookers/porn stars/drug girls then you'd want money
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:11 PM
1

you agree with me you just don't realize it, money, looks, power, skills and social skills are all social power in one form or another
/r/seduction07/06/21 03:24 PM
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try saying hi or good morning to people when you are walking about in public, a lot of game gurus say the best thing to do is go up and start a conversation right away don't give yourself time to psych yourself out, just count to 3 and go also maybe temper your expectation, maybe it could have been full of passion maybe it would have been a friendly conversation where he told you he had a girlfriend
/r/seduction06/06/21 07:27 AM
1

Maybe it's how you're approaching them that's scaring them away. Try Walking in the same direction down the street, casual opener as you pass her. Comment on something that is happening around you eg. at the grocery store, "did you see that guy buying 50 pineapples?" Time constraint. "Hi, I really like your vibe and wanted to meet you, I'm on my way to meet a friend for coffee I can only talk for a minute" I talk to women in public all the time and they are never freaked out. You are doing somet…
/r/seduction06/06/21 05:04 AM
2

wet holes
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:45 AM
5

20% of the men get 80% of the sex and then the other 20% goes to the middle 60% and then the bottom 20% get nothing it's easier to shame men and call them incels and to tell them they just need to lift weights than it is to admit that there is a large percentage of men that no women want to fuck, personally I have never had problems meeting women but I can see how it could be very difficult for a lot of men I used to go to bars all the time to pick up women but I don't bother anymore because mos…
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:00 AM
5

I think there is 2 schools of thought. Attraction for sex and having genetically fit babies. Attraction for being a good provider and father for children. Attraction for having sex and babies is almost 100% based on looks. So fitness, age, fashion.Attraction for being a good provider and father can vary culture to culture, woman to woman, maybe she had a very financially insecure childhood and she looks for men with money. Maybe her father was a drinker and she doesn't want a man that drinks. Ma…
/r/seduction04/06/21 07:07 PM
22

the self improvement for the sake of having a better life for yourself is worth it but all the effort you put in to get with women for some mediocre sex with some mediocre women (which is the average), for the most part it's not worth the effort we are so strongly driven by our hormones and need for sex we do all this stupid shit to get women and get laid, so do it for yourself boys, women are like the candy on the cake of life, the cake is great and the candy is just an extra you don't really n…
/r/seduction04/06/21 06:59 PM
1

Try nearly nudes underwear, we got see through underwear that will show everything off. And don't forget to buy a swallet, it's a wallet for your salt!
/r/seduction22/05/21 05:39 PM
13

a kid in a candy store with a wallet full of money afraid to buy candy
/r/seduction18/05/21 06:26 AM
1

Everyone is afraid of rejection you just feel the fear and do it anyways. I mean it largely depends on venue, if you talking to a random girl on the street you should invite her to go for a coffee with you somewhere nearby or if you are at a bar forget numbers and dates try to get laid that night etc. I think you just need to put yourself out there a lot so you can learn and get rejected a lot and get tough and get experience. Remember the most important aspect of game is focusing on improving y…
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:30 AM
-1

Listen to how ridiculous you sound. I don't want to go on a date but I am afraid she will date someone else.... Don't wait, get friendzoned ASAP and go next. Women if they like you will kiss you within a few minutes of meeting you (not always but sometimes) and will go on a date with you as soon as possible. If they don't like you they will friendzone you. Stop being afraid of rejection and put yourself out there.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:15 AM
1

well since you hate coffee why the fuck do you want to go to a coffee bar lmfao, I would recommend finding a cool place that serves bubble tea or something other bullshit and be like hey I'm going tomorrow to check out a new bubble tea place that sounds really cool do you want to join me? I wouldn't think too much or post too much I would just start hitting on as many women as possible as it sounds like your experience level is very low and you need to just get some practice
/r/seduction14/05/21 11:20 PM
2

have more conversations with everyone to practice, you will see what makes sense and figure it out, talk to everyone not just women you are attracted to
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:03 AM
2

this is not necessarily true, it depends on your vibe and the conversation and the flow
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:02 AM
1

try to have longer conversation in person when you meet them to build rapport and to find out if you are interested in their personality, you screen them thats shows that you are high value and don't just spend time with any woman, if a woman talks to you for 2 minutes in person she knows nothing about you and easier for her just to ghost or flake
/r/seduction07/03/21 09:01 AM
2

Ask her out Pretty much all women like men who take the lead and you can still be a gentleman when you do it
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:59 AM
13

from my experience they got what they wanted and you probably wont hook up again, next
/r/seduction07/03/21 04:31 AM
3

just go to the park and hit on 9 more women that are as hot as her, you will eventually find one that is willing to sleep with you and if you don't just keep focusing on self improvement and you will get there, also maybe just chill a bit with the kissing and hugging if the girl isn't vibing with you
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:41 AM
11

agree to disagree, even though I do think women care more about looks than they say
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:36 AM
1

yeet
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:29 AM
2

its hard to say we don't have enough information, I would say try to look clean cut and wear nice clothes, start lifting weights if you don't, improve your English if it is not perfect, become a man of value in your career
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:28 AM
4

you sound like you are trying to collect a baseball card not get to know a woman and to create a positive experience with her so that she is attracted to you, don't focus on the number, focus on having a good conversation and improving your social skills
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:26 AM
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you sound angry and obsessed with looks, yes it helps to get laid and one night stands if you are hotter but it is much more important for men to be successful than to look good for our own sake too we are given the hands we are dealt and it is easier for some and harder for others, don't get plastic surgery, don't obsess with how you look, do take care of your health, do work out, do dress well, study hard, work hard and when you are making good money at a good job in your 40's you will be able…
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:24 AM
3

dressing well = success, money, social savvy, it is definitely going to help, it might not help with every woman but overall you will do better with women if you dress better
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:45 AM
1

I would probably just move on to the next woman, easiest way around this
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:43 AM
3

well, be a physically attractive, strong leader with no weaknesses is what this guy is saying, but what he also is saying is he only dates damaged women who were abused before, healthy people will not put up with this bullshit, being a strong leader without showing weakness is good advice, the rest seems like misogynistic bullshit to me
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:40 AM
2

courage is facing your fear and doing it anyways, you're still scared but you do it, good job buddy, keep it up
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:37 AM
1

women are all differently attracted to different things unlike men who basically just like hot women that are as close to 20 as possible, anything can work but that doesn't mean this is good advice, the takeaway here I think is that you have nothing to lose by hitting on women even if you are nervous
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:35 AM
1

google.com try it out, flirting is basically building tension you do or say something nice then you pull away, repeat, think about how you would tease a younger sibling that you love, good luck
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:33 AM
1

when you are having a good conversation with a girl touch the back of her arm just above her elbow, if shes ok with that and giving you kiss me eye contact then you can kiss her, boom done, also touching her hair or her side is another way to see if shes attracted to you before you go in for the kiss
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:31 AM
0

usually guys develop feelings first so wait a month after you want to be boyfriend/girlfriend then ask her
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:27 AM
2

just try being the devils advocate for a week, whenever someone says something disagree with it, if they get offended tell them you are practicing being the devils advocate, if they can't take a joke fuck em
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:25 AM
5

if you in a bar the best way is to kiss them as soon as possible if you trying to get laid
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:24 AM
1

just be more subtle, women are masters of nuance, guys are way too blunt because thats what they like but you can flirt with a woman right away, just practice flirting with every woman you meet and you'll get there
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:23 AM
1

not clear what you are asking
/r/seduction03/03/21 08:21 AM
-1

Maybe you just have lower testosterone than average? You don't want to have sex for the sake of having sex? Maybe you are gay?
/r/seduction26/02/21 09:20 PM
1

obvious answer, have a nap for 40 min to an hour
/r/seduction26/02/21 09:17 PM
1

do something every day that makes you feel successful and manly, win at a video game, score baskets in the basketball hoop by your house, its proven that succeeding at things helps you biologically and mentally, if you are always getting rejected lower your standards, eventually you will succeed
/r/seduction26/02/21 09:14 PM
1

pretend shes your annoying little sister
/r/seduction26/02/21 09:10 PM
4

try not agreeing with the woman and being a bit edgy but not saying sexual things, challenge what she says, basically be a bit of a challenge and don't be boring and agreeable, by being a bit disagreeable and edgy you can build some positive sexual tension, this is what my buddy does in bars and he picks up more chicks in bars than anyone i ever met
/r/seduction26/02/21 09:09 PM
1

rule #1 for game never take advice from women about women, you're young, you're dumb, just go out there have fun hit on a lot of women and don't over think it, i'm sure you will be fine, if you're vibing super hard and want her number get her number, who cares either way it doesn't matter, I have gotten laid from women who's numbers I got at bars but most of the time you just have a weird text convo and then nothing happens
/r/seduction26/02/21 05:04 AM
0

this is bad advice
/r/seduction26/02/21 05:01 AM
1

I would say a tailored suit, you can pick up a suit and jacket at an outlet store and have it tailored at your local tailor for under 300 dollars for the suit and the tailoring and you will look like a million dollars, I am more of a t-shirt guy but one time I was wearing a suit at a bus stop and asked a woman standing there where the bus was going and we got on the bus and sat near each other and started talking and she asked me to come back to her place to fuck, I guarantee if I wasn't wearing…
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:58 AM
1

meet some hotter guy hook up with him and then you can forget about it
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:50 AM
1

Why are you out? Need more info. If you out to get laid and some girl wants to take you home 7 minutes into the night go home with her. If you out to party with your friends and don't want to fuck that night you could try making out with her for fun. I honestly don't worry about numbers at bars/clubs they are a waste of fucking time. Maybe stop putting so much value on every interaction and spend more time around attractive women doing things with them and having fun.
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:48 AM
1

BAN
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:46 AM
1

find something you have in common with her, send her a DM and say something like hey, I thought you looked cool from your profile cuz we both like trains my favorite train is the ABC Train, I know this is kinda forward but I wondered if you want to go on a date with me, I want to checking out a new cafe at downtown in our city would you want to go maybe monday or wednesday? Your chances seem like 0 already so might as well just ask for the date and be done with it, worst thing is she says no and…
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:36 AM
1

first one is a freebie, don't stress it if anything goes wrong or the sex is bad say wow that wasn't the best sex let's try again
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:32 AM
2

I just like to think of the time I save not having to deal with her bullshit when a girl turns me down
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:31 AM
0

yeah but you're donald trumps mistress and lesbians dont care much about looks
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:30 AM
1

how you went wrong is online dating, its 14 guys for every girl. I know its hard with covid but pickup is always best in person
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:28 AM
10

be attractive, don't be unattractive
/r/seduction26/02/21 04:26 AM
2

you're killing it son keep up the good work
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:52 AM
4

You didn't put spaces after your periods. You don't listen to advice so I won't give you any more. Go fuck yourself.
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:40 AM
1

It depends on the people in the fwb relationship. It is not a good idea to start one type of relationship with expectations it will turn into a different type of relationship. If you want a serious relationship and they only want to be fuck buddies the best thing to do is say no thanks and find someone that wants what you want.
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:38 AM
1

First off hit the space bar after you type a period. So it is easier to read what you write. Try having a 5-10 minute conversation with the girl and if the conversation goes well invite her to do something fun with you at a the fair. YOU ARE AT A FUCKING FAIR just ask her to go play a game with you and be fun. That's your first date. You don't need a pickup line ever. You just talk about what is going on around you. Engage them in a normal conversation and then introduce yourself with your name.…
/r/seduction24/02/21 07:36 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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