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[–]TheSunshineMan 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She should know it's not for friends.. by your body language, eye contact, and the fact you're asking her on a date.
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[–]TheSunshineMan 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep it simple if you're brand new... talk, vibe..
1.5-2 minutes into the conversation..
"Gotta run, lets hang out this week, what's your number?"
(as you're pulling your phone out and opening up the contact screen on your phone).
[–]Particular_Visual531 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are way over thinking. Women know with in a few seconds your intentions. Be confident, be bold but be nice. Joke and tease her. Have a time constraint ( I need to get to class) Ask her for her contact info.
[–]AadityaNandal 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It should be clear from very start or u might land up in frindzone
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[–]AadityaNandal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just talk in a flirtatious manner , dont make it too neendy just the right equilibrium, look into her eyes while talking, a nice eye contact is mandatory, after 2-3 days of talking if u have mutual friends or if u guys in same university as mentioned so its sure shot u gonna meet her again so talk to her 2-3 days maybe 4 , give her a good time and give your shot after a good laugh as her while leaving so it was a good time together with you would you like to go out someday if she says yes which she probably will , then just go out , try for movie or drinks and in both situations after like and hour of talking try holding her hand if she lets you do that and gives positive vibes to it kiss her while dropping her back home from the pub or while in the end of the movie , thats ut ;) if u have further questions feel free to ask here or dm thanks :)
[–]gbizzle2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well it doesnt even matter if she isnt attracted to you from the jump now does it. So no dont literally say that you want romance. Women dont want romance. Ill stop there before I get too deep.
Just keep the sexual tension there at all times and you wont need to worry about getting friend zoned. Do that and you couldn't get friendzoned even if you tried.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok now I'm intrigued, what does women don't want romance mean?
[+]Papa_Musk -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
no because you can become her friend then bang her friends, the more female friends the better
[–]gbizzle2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Real simp shit
[–]Papa_Musk -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
fuck off
[–]dobbs1997 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
wait but for real though..how is that simp shit ?
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Because it doesn’t work.
If one girl “friendzones” you her friends will not see your worth, at least as a partner. They will just friendzone you too.
[–]dobbs1997 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
but how is it simping if you become friends with a girl but you just end up hooking up with her friends ? i don’t think you’re using that word correctly lol & also that’s not always true, it’s arbitrary..if one girl of a group friendzones you there can still be others that still find you attractive. it’s not one way & that’s it .
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
If you’re getting friendzoned you’re probably not that great with women. Thus, her friends with friendzone you too bc you’ll repeat the same pattern.
[–]dobbs1997 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
where do you get this information from ?
[–]dobbs1997 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
also, friendzoning can happen, because not every woman is gonna be attracted to you..that’s just a fact, many factors to it too. it doesn’t mean you’re not good with women.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
9/10 dudes who get friendzoned aren’t good with women. Stop lying to yourself.
where do you get those stats ?
[–]TheTruth221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah
[–]GuaranteeOwn5108 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, make a point to let her know you find her attractive in some way, that way she knows your intentions and that you’re not just being nice and friendly… it changes the conversation. Walking up to a girl and saying in a chill matter of fact way “Hey…. you look really good.” and then saying something about her appearance has worked for me quite a few times.
[–]RealHumanBeing2020 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is one of the few times I’d compliment their looks. “Hey, my name is ___. I thought you were cute and wanted to come talk to you. Let’s grab drinks sometime, when are you free/what’s your number?” Something along those lines.
[–]roaphaen 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This baffles me. Do women have that many randos offering to be their friends? I wish people came up to me constantly offering friendship. Wtf.
[–]KingoftheNorth412 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The friendzone is NOT a place you want to be. Be clear early on that you ain’t there to grab pina colada’s and eat bon bons.
Ways to do this: flirt with her, subtle physical touch (like her arm), ask her out at the end of the interaction.
Plenty of videos on YouTube about friendzone and how to avoid. Invest time and watch those.
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