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[–]Papa_Musk 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No. But they want other women to want you to prove you are a catch. Only damaged people want you to cheat.
[–]Ecstatic-Flounder-48 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OP you’re running down a pretty tricky rabbit hole. You have to be a seriously dominant male to have a woman want you more after you’ve cheated. Even then it’s not a good idea in general. Making her jealous by showing all the attention you get from other women is fair game.
But imma get downvoted to shit for saying this stuff
[–]FancyHanime 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this just made things more complicated
[–]Limitlessgoodluck -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Depends on the relationship. If your poly with her, then yes most Polly people want each other to cheat, or have Another type of agreement like they can only cheat with these other people.
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Being poly isn't cheating.
Cheating involves lying.
[–]Limitlessgoodluck 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It could be. People can have Polly commitments, and break them to engage in other separate activities. I’m saying a person can be in a Polly relationship and cheat on them with others that are outside that relationship, be it a triad or whatever the case
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I'm speaking as someone in a poly marriage, and I don't want my spouse or any of my other partners to cheat. They don't want me cheating either. What we want is honesty and agreed upon rules to be followed.
Your OC said that most poly partners want cheating. No, we do not.
[–]Limitlessgoodluck 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, true. My apologies, I think I sort of misunderstood before
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Polygamy?
[–]IGetBoredSometimes23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Polyamory
[–]l34df4rm3r 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends on the women, their upbringing, their attachment style, their relationship with their primary caregiver as a child and so on. In short, it's unhealthy and a sign of impaired mental growth.
On the other hand, your woman will find you attractive if a lot of other women find you attractive too, i.e., you have other female friends who are close to you. But that's not cheating.
[–]TheTruth221 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
depends on the female
[–]strikerx07 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They want you to be able to but choose not to
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