Do people who have bad picking up skills decrease the chance for picking up and approaching women in general for all men around them?

ChadsGrandfather · 2021-09-23T05:30:08+00:00

Nah, it just makes those who have better communication/social skills look that much better.

You will stick out (if you have skills), since there’s so much trash out there.

Papa_Musk · 2021-09-23T07:13:27+00:00

if that guy is with you then yes if he's a stranger then no

Old_Pattern_2595 · 2021-09-23T11:39:49+00:00

Lol no, your specific results have no effect on others around you. If anything it increases it because with him getting rejected by every woman it removes him from the competition so there’s more women for all the other men around.

MisterShogunate · 2021-09-23T10:16:10+00:00

As someone who does a lot of approaching, absolutely yes. This is why women are more receptive when you are approaching in more exclusive areas where not just anyone can be there. Because it's usually great people, women associated being approached with good things.

If a place is known for having a lot of weird guys approaching women then by just approaching you've been categorized into a bad crowd. Women associate approaching with bad experiencing. This is why when you are approaching, you need to know what the "in-crowd" is and make sure to dress and act like them while approaching. For example, if you are approaching in a business district, dressing somewhat formal and being a bit more toned down with your approach will give you more success as opposed to dressing casual and looking like a homeless dude trying to ask for change or make weird advances. In contrast, if you are approaching on campus and you dress too formally people will associate you with weird church people who ask people "do you love god?" or some weird questions like that.

BurnItDownSR · 2021-09-23T07:10:19+00:00

If you actually know what you're doing then no, because you'll be able to identify the best way to approach them even under those circumstances.

BellMaleficent6048 · 2021-09-23T21:15:19+00:00

Example of where it would, last time out I overheard a guy approaching 2 girls and the one girl literally screamed at him get the fuck away from me fuck off. The cringe part is he continued trying to talk to them even after that.

If I would’ve tried approaching her after that without knowing there's an extremely high chance she instantly rejects me just based on her hostile mood.

Title	Do people who have bad picking up skills decrease the chance for picking up and approaching women in general for all men around them?
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Date	September 23, 2021 5:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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