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ikeepon · 2021-09-19T00:33:44+00:00

Yes, you’re overthinking it. The fact that you touched her at all is good. I would aim to touch her arms and hands first.

lunaokazul · 2021-09-19T01:29:50+00:00

Really depends on the girl tbh. Me for example, if someone touched my elbow I’d feel like the person has a liking to me but that’s mostly because I was deprived of physical touch growing up. My love language is also physical touch so when someone touches me, I take it pretty personally. Ofc I also take into consideration their other behavior, I don’t just fall in love or assume the person likes me based on a simple touch.

I’m also an overthinker with a social anxiety so there’s that lol

How did the girl react? Did she smile or was taken aback? That could show that she likes what you did or that she didn’t expect it. Was she being nonchalant about it or acting like she didn’t even notice? That could be exactly that, that she didn’t notice, or she was trying to suppress a reaction so you don’t realize how she really feels about it. Again, all depends on the girl and the vibe between you guys

Edit: damn you asked a simple question and look what I gave you.. I think it’s time for bed 😂

Edit 2: saw your comment about her reaction, if you feel like there was a strong connection and if you have her number then why not text her ask her if she wants to catch up over coffee or something?

ComfortableGas7741 · 2021-09-19T01:08:08+00:00

if the girls interested in you she’s not gonna give a shit about touching elbows, just go for a kiss at the end of the date if you think it went well

kjackrel · 2021-09-19T01:45:25+00:00

Go in for a hug lmao

Left_Bed_9379 · 2021-09-19T02:02:37+00:00

I actually went for arms around her shoulders last time on a first date, but she felt uneasy (maybe she was still worried about covid). As a result things didn’t work out. If she shows signs of taking precautions for covid (for example using hand sanitizer, wearing face mask in public, etc) I’d consider taking things slowly…

Mark_Fanon · 2021-09-19T06:57:19+00:00

Yes overthinking, but any touch is good - the more you practise, the easier it gets.

jacksonwildsmith · 2021-09-19T11:48:24+00:00

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MagnusRoundstone · 2021-09-19T01:33:40+00:00

Totally overthinking

Papa_Musk · 2021-09-19T04:00:58+00:00

It's non sexual.

Lotus_82 · 2021-09-19T05:25:32+00:00

That’s such a random question it’s not like there’s one universal set of rules where a touch of the elbow always means the same thing every interaction is different depending on the context and everything else. So a touch of the elbow could meet absolutely anything.

Ok-Temperature2256 · 2021-09-19T10:07:25+00:00

Elbo is a no go for touching with your hands. 9 times out of 10 mindful people cough into their elbow so that they don’t spread anything with their hands. You should look into what some would call the “Industry Handshake.” What is the “Industry Handshake?” The “Industry Handshake” is when two people greet or send off by tapping elbows. It is popular in some kitchens, but more often in the porno industry.

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