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TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-11T20:07:15+00:00

Forget the winking - don't do that..

Forget the time - use something where it's easier to have a longer conversation:

Hey I'm new in town, what are some cool things that you recommend?

Then if you're feeling confident enough you could always say "that sounds super cool, we should both go do that sometime" , get her number, set the date, and meet again.

Papa_Musk · 2021-07-11T21:46:05+00:00

try extending the conversation, ask them where a good place to eat is nearby or something or engage them with what is going on at the park, game essentially is about finding out what you have in common with a woman, making her feel comfortable and exciting her emotionally, try to have a longer conversation and see if you can connect on some common ground

curious about the cold showers and stopping masturbating, why does this make you less anxious?

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-07-12T13:06:47+00:00

It looks like you are doing the right thing. If this is your starting point, thats fine. Work from here.

I would focus on trying to stretch yourself a little bit more each time. Try to get into a really good social mood, however you want to do that. Just be in a really good state of mind. Then see if you can step up a bit. Thats how you improve. You have to push your comfort zone to get there.

If you can get to the point where you are just having fun talking to people, learn a bit about what women are attracted to (leader vibe, a little bold, good vocal tonality, non needy, etc..), and interact and learn from each set. You don't need to worry about tactics so much as the feedback you get is probably all you need.

One other tip is you may want to focus on an inner game concept, which is 'intent'. Right now your intent is to open, ask for the time, and then get out. Your intent isn't about having a fun conversation with the girls you see and conveying your attractive personality. Your intent is, open and get out. Your sub-communications will convey this. So, over time think about this and try to adjust your intent. You want to be 100% on wanting to have a fun conversation where you are in state and at your best. Not wanting to ask for the time and get out. Intent is an inner game concept, but its something that can improve over time. It matters because your body language will convey your intent. And right now, its probably not where you want it to be.

RyanpB2021 · 2021-07-12T06:13:45+00:00

But what do you say after they give you the time?

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