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tryrforrob · 2021-09-18T20:21:47+00:00

Just reading in how your dates went my advise would be - dude, just focus on someone else. This is not mixed signals but just seems like the girl is playing with you, or is a bit unstable…both cases, youll be better off hanging out with other girls or just going out and meeting new people. Treat Her as a friend if she wants it, if shes really wanting to be friends worst case youll be friends, best case she will gerlt frustrated you play her game and are cool with that and meet other people / girls. Also set a boundary - let her know you dont fuck around and just cuddle, but if you get intimate, you want to go all the way, if she doesnt want to move to next level which is totally ok - dont get in any boob touching etc, youre selling yourself short, getting owned and wasting time

RealHumanBeing2020 · 2021-09-18T21:07:04+00:00

If your dick was out and she still didn’t want to have sex, I’d move on to someone who actually wants to feel your dick inside of them.

his_favorite_phantom · 2021-09-18T23:45:12+00:00

"Nice cock... in a friend way" "How bout you suck it... in a friend way"

"I see you as a good friend" "You can just admit you wanna fuck me"

"I'm going to take my top off" "Okay but only if you let me titty fuck you"

"Stop looking at ur watch" "How bout you come over here and make me"

"How's it going" "How bout you come over and find out"

"Feel my heartbeat" "I can't feel it over ur shirt"

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-09-19T05:48:26+00:00

Women test men by trying to manipulate them with drama and stupid games like this. You showed susceptibility to being manipulated and thinking with your dick so she realized you are not exactly the type of man she is looking for, but there is still hope. I think she kept throwing opportunities at you but you were so focused on getting your dick wet that you failed to see her BS and manipulation.

You need to become immune to it. Make a move, ignore all that she says because it's lies and bullshit anyway and do what you want. If she still didn't want to sleep with you, tell her you have an early day tomorrow and walk her to the door. Your willingness to tolerate bullshit is what gets you in trouble. The second you decide you will tolerate zero bullshit is when things will start changing for you.

donnybdonnyb · 2021-09-18T21:49:45+00:00

Give a woman car keys she wants to drive the space shuttle, give her a fork she wants the whole cutlery set, give her a chair she wants the living room. She’s just seeing how much attention she can get out of you before you draw the line for validation. She obviously saw you were weak in one instance and now she’s seeing how weak you are. You just need to stand your ground. Whatever you want from her stick to it. If that’s friends don’t touch her boobs or let her look at your dick. If that’s more then don’t keep texting her unless she gives it up. She’s just looking for your boundary

OutrageousRecord4944 · 2021-09-18T19:57:43+00:00

Seems like you’re on the right track. You just need to pull back a little more. Leave her on “read” a couple of days. Try and see if you can take the kissing a step further if ya’ll happen to end up kissing again.

If she does the shirt thing again use reverse psychology “thank God you didn’t take your top off. I did not want to see those saggy ol tits”.

In the end if nothing works then just friend zone her and move on. But you’ll have to reallt begin treating her like a little sister. Don’t fall into none of her games.

DryAdhesiveness6579 · 2021-09-18T20:45:20+00:00

she definitely wants attention. dude this girl seems super unstable. She is in her prime and she just likes male attention.

She is def getting dick downed by other dudes and not you.

I’d cut your loses.

Texaslonghorn11x7 · 2021-09-19T04:47:57+00:00

I (26M) met this really hot chick (24F) 4 days ago and shes sending me a lot of mixed signals

This is easy. Mixed signals = no interest. block her number and move on. Don't waste any more time.

Tuesday night we had like 10-11 drinks, food, and bonded. She told me that she loved this “date” and that she just saw me as a friend

Bail. Don't look back

she busted out laughing

Good God man, have some self respect. Why are you putting yourself through this?

My attention was diverted from her leaving

This is all you ever were for her.

What do you think I should do next? It feels like a lot of teasing and shit tests

Block her number and go play with other women

Papa_Musk · 2021-09-19T06:31:03+00:00

this girl sounds awful, next

wth214 · 2021-09-19T07:50:09+00:00

Your under the food & fun category in her head bruh, move on

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