What is a time frame for success on Tinder or other apps? I feel like I get a match, get them messaging, things go well. How long and how many messages before hitting up for a number, talking, then getting on an in person date? I feel when this takes too long they are just validation fishing and I should be out, but too short maybe is not building enough comfort and rapport to GET a non flaking date. I'd be very curious to hear from women on this. I'm sure this is on the bell curve, but there has to be a sweet spot.