Hey guys I had a doubtful question, actually two.

  1. Have you experienced that you need an excuse to approach a girl and can't be just direct? If so how did you overcame it?

  2. I had really bad social skills in the past that it literally caused an "emotional trauma" for me at high school, my first year. Now forward three years, I've good social skills but there's still that fear or doubt that it might happen again. So how did you guys overcame past failures?

Thanks :)