Is it really possible to seduce a woman you want to be with or do you have to settle for who chooses you?

2021-08-17T11:20:40+00:00

This is quite an interesting concept that I've wondered about too.

But while you say this. isn't it the same for the women who are showing interest in you and wanting you but you are turning away from them?

I thin that perhaps the women that you are more interested in that you see your life working out with. some of them might not be ready to settle or they don't see you as someone who would give them what they want. Perhaps you should elicit values from the girls that you are really interested and see why you aren't able to play that part in their life.

I reckon you just can't tell where people are in their lives sometimes and what they want. it's also a case that when you treasure a girl it's harder to keep her because your not a detached to the outcome.

1keentolearn12 · 2021-08-17T11:29:26+00:00

By speaking to a woman, you are choosing

If you didn’t speak to a women, you wouldn’t be choosing

TheSunshineMan · 2021-08-17T12:17:16+00:00

You choose from among the women who show interest in you.

2021-08-17T15:25:54+00:00

You're going from one extreme to another.

Yes, you're right, there is no such thing as "sniper pick-up." The idea that you can spot a woman at a bar--any woman--and, if you're good enough, have her in bed a few hours/days later, is BS made up by seduction coach companies to sell dream to the virgin masses. Even the best car salesman in the world is gonna meet people he won't be able to sell a car to.

On the other hand, you do have some control over the amount and quality of women who show interest in you. Game is a bit like throwing a net in the sea to catch fish: the better your net and fishing technique, the more likely you are to pull that one fish you were looking for. You can't choose which fish you get in your net, but you can choose what you do with your net and which fish you throw back to the sea.

To your problem: if you manage to sleep with women you like and they ghost you after a few encounters, maybe you're doing something wrong like talking about relationship too soon, or maybe you're attracted to the wrong crowd (say, 21-y-o backpackers who live across the world and are only here for a month to have fun). Just think of what you're doing, and see if there's a better way you could do things.

Also, most guys who complain about game not going the way they want it to go, make generalizations out of a few instances. You can say there's a trend if you've experienced failure with 20 people; if it's only 3, you might wanna keep pushing with more people, chances are you're just a few people away from that girl who will stay.

earsurgery9 · 2021-08-17T17:28:28+00:00

no matter how you feel and what you do you can’t actually “choose” or pull a woman, she’s the one who chooses you.

Correct

Game helps you close teh girls who are attracted

YOu can't MAKE her attracted. Neither can any Pickup artist/coach

We've all seen enough infields at this point to see how it works.

Title	Is it really possible to seduce a woman you want to be with or do you have to settle for who chooses you?
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Date	August 17, 2021 10:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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