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2021-08-12T16:41:45+00:00

1.) From personal experience the girl will, at the very least, broach the topic that she’s looking for something more serious/ what are you looking for talk. My usual response is the truth: I’m not looking for anything serious but I wouldn’t be opposed to it.

At the very least you should be able to gauge her level by how flirty, touchy, overall vibe, etc she is being. I don’t recommend bringing it up.

2.) Most women will forgive you for coming off too strong but will never forgive you for not trying. Even asking someone you just met if she’s dtf, if you convey your intent in a funny/witty way, you can be pretty damn direct about only wanting to hook up without making it cringe.

For example a few days ago I met this I-banker(mid/late 30s) and said- “Hey I’m only here for a couple of weeks. How many times do we need to see each other before I can take advantage of you?…oh by take advantage, I mean use your Bloomberg terminal.” She laughed, shut me down, and then gave me her number lol

Tldr; Regardless of what she’s looking for, make it fun for her

Edit- typos

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-08-12T17:01:04+00:00

You dont

Dude, nobody is looking for a formal/serious relationship, at the beginning everyone is looking for a casual relationship,

After some time has passed you would meet with pressure, they would start asking questions such as 'what we are' or where is this going, etc, you don't panic and you say something like we are not in ready for that step yet, but maybe in the future we will

After some months they would start asking those questions again, and if you're still not ready/sure

you should tell them, and be bold, they will try to threaten you with leaving you, but you need to stick up to what you want

justmuro · 2021-08-12T16:18:24+00:00

So tip number one don’t ask them what they want. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter and it puts weird pressure on her. So just don’t do #1 question.

Tip #2 you don’t tell them what your looking for either. That also doesn’t matter. It solidifies it and it’s kinda weird? You just met this person and your saying hey btw I wanna fall in love with you and marry you. Or your saying yeah btw I just wanna bone you for X time and move on or see where it goes.

So muro your telling me not what to do wtf should I do? You just interact with her escalate and make things flow. You feel her out and see what you want to do and try to do it. Don’t force actions on her but slowly escalate. Give her a kiss if she isn’t receptive take a step back rinse and repeat until she says no and moves past you. Comfort is everything, make her feel comfortable and secure with you.

Let’s say you end up fucking her she’ll ask what you want eventually. That’s when you say the truth gently. Just say you know I like you a lot and I’m happy with what we have. Let’s see where things take us.

Gl

Woujo · 2021-08-12T16:29:00+00:00

You don't bring it up. Let the woman bring it up.

SuperFuzz666 · 2021-08-12T18:58:49+00:00

Don't bring it up
If she brings it up just be honest and straight up about what you want

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-08-12T19:48:21+00:00

1) Just vibe.

2) let her know upfront that you're just "having fun and seeing where it goes" or "having fun and taking it 1 step at a time". It sounds cliche AF, but most females who are after what you're after will still be DTF (follow your lead).

But if you're looking for a relationship, then let her know that too. If she's cool with that then she'll proceed.

2021-08-13T00:35:50+00:00

Nah don't ask her what she is looking for tell her what you want and then it's up to her if she wants the same or wants something more.

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