I am a pretty attractive guy, I can make the room laugh I’m not afraid to put myself at the butt of a joke -confident- and I’m very outgoing. I can approach a girl basically anywhere and not sweat it.

I think that the issue is I really like doing things I find fun—that most others don’t. Just silly things. I like this about myself and really want to keep it part of my personality so as not to become the grouchy guy when I’m older. I think of the tv shows psych or the mentalist when I imagine myself older. But I think because of these silly things I do I lose a lot of power and influence in the room I’m in. Girls lose interest and guys don’t really want to be around me after a while. At least that is how I see it.

My two questions are

Is this the issue? And if so; should I sacrifice something I love about myself to get more love from others?

Extra question I had while typing this: has anyone else had something like this?