I think this place would be better if more people posted Field reports (i've seen a few people posting them recently)
I know people used to post them way more. Lays and conescutive blowouts. Didn't matter. Pretty much in script form. Interesting to read
But over time people stopped posting them
I done some digging around and found a few posts by people who used to post them explaining why they stopped.
It seems to be the case that there was some sort of survivorship bias that annoyed them. So, if they post an FR and open a girl direct and she blows him off, everyone says ''Dude. Never go direct!!! That's why she rejected you! Read mysterymethod!''
Then the same guy would post an FR the next day, open a girl indirect and get blown off, and everyone replies ''Dude! Never go indirect! That's hiding your penis game! Show your intent. Always go direct! Read Mark Manson!''
And it doesn't stop at the opener: We all know that every single PUA coach out there disagrees with the next one about literally every tiny aspect. They agree on nothing. Yet they all supposedly get amazing results. So there's clearly no right or wrong way.
And it of course carries over here and people get bored of posting
So, I suggest, people start writing FR's again. They maybe desribe which general 'model' they are following before they begin their FR
That way, hopefully only people who also follow that method will reply and he won't get lots of nonsense replies from people who are commenting about him doing it all 'wrong' (when he might be very closely following RSD or Mystery's model, but the poster who replies follows mark manson)
And people also need to give more thoughtful advice I think. Add some meat to the bone. Don't tell him he needs to be less boring. Give him examples of what you would have said in that situation etc
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