Am I trying too hard to get a girl?

Mikinl · 2021-07-24T06:07:42+00:00

If you make that happen, you would not need to focus on girls, girls would focus on you.

SpohCbmal · 2021-07-24T08:32:12+00:00

You just want to learn to love musket again? What does this mean?

spudbudgirlie · 2021-07-24T02:51:52+00:00

You don’t need to ‘get’ a girl. It’s not like ‘getting’ a motorcycle, or ‘getting’ a hamster.

You need to think of yourself as ‘open to a relationship.’ Decide what that means for you. Casual dating? Hooking up? Exclusive dating? Marriage? Probably casual dating to begin with is best.

Why do you think you’re undesirable? What do you need to work on? And finally, how old are you? If you’re 60 there might be a problem. But I don’t think you are. What do you mean by ‘go up to girls’? Like, in a bar? On the street? At church? Details please.

I just hope that, aside from not having a relationship with a girl, that you are happy. That you have lots of interests and people who love and value you, and that you’re looking forward to what life has in store for you.

missterrcammeraa · 2021-07-24T02:42:09+00:00

If you feel the need to work on yourself than do it because if you don’t know that you’re desirable person already than you need some to do

autogizmo · 2021-07-24T03:07:14+00:00

Getting a girls isn't a measure of how desirable you are. If you feel like you need to work on yourself, do it. Be the best version of yourself first.

Title	Am I trying too hard to get a girl?
Author	GiraffePuncher69
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	July 24, 2021 2:27 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/oqh42v/am_i_trying_too_hard_to_get_a_girl/
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