3 years ago i had to change job due to toxic environment (i had at least 10 jobs and this first time happened to me) and since that he constantly tells my family (i hopy only) that Im scared of people, scared to go out (i go out) etc...

It pisses me off. He often adds he also used to not go out anywhere and it messed with his head and uses it as an argument.

Anytime family member calls him (even if just to wish happy birthday) or visits us he tries to change topic to me and says how im scared of people and cant adapt.

also, since hes not working at weekend, every weekend he says same stuff to my mom.

My assumption is that he has nothing to talk about with his own family (including wife, sisters, brothers, etc) because he has job-home only lifestyle since last 5+ years so he tries to talk about me and it later eventually became his habit.

What should I do? Whats the point of mentioning this everytime he talks with his family even if this was true? And more over, this is not true! Sometimes he tells me some weird stuff that happeneds between his brother and his brother wife even if its really personal (alcoholism, beating each other, calling police and stuff) and shouldnt really be spread among family as "hot news"...

I remember there was a thread "my mom calls everyone im autistic" that gave me a good laugh but shame on me i didnt realize back then im in same situation...