Hi, Im a 34m and she’s 24. I met a girl in a bar in Miami, she came to me to know me, we had a after party and we slept.

She’s from Ny, I’m from another country so I went to NY for a weekend to see her and know more about her. We count meet us that time. I get back to miami and then I went again to ny and finally we start dating, we got 4 dates in 2 weeks, we had good times and ending in bed and also i slept in her place a couple times.

The last day we couldn’t see each other cuz she told me she has with her friends something fun in the apartment so I can go If I want. Of course I wanted because it’s going to be the last day to see each other, she told me she let me know. (Was the last day because she’s going home the next day for the weekend and I go back to Miami)

The day came and she never let me know about the event, I sent her a message at 7p asking it’s the event it’s going, if not we can go dinner. She just ignored me and never respond. 1am she start calling me, I was sleeping I don’t wanted to answer cuz the late call so I texted her the next day I saw her calls and if can tell me what happened. She just told “sorry about that”

I got upset and I told her everything like I felt confuse and disappointed cuz I was waiting for her text o call about the event or explaining something why she never contact me and thought she start called me at 1am cuz she was drunk.

She answered sorry we couldn’t met us but she don’t really know what I want about this going. So I told her what I want, first I told her I came to ny to know her much better, I feel a big connection and would like something more serious when I get back to ny( that’s gonna be like in 2 more months cuz I get back to my country)

The other things, the contact or communication with her it’s super dry, I mean she sometimes ghosted me, ignores, fast reply’s, late replays, there’s everything.

I started to slow down the message because I can’t have a communication for this lack of communication I always contact first cuz I like her and I feel I lil distance from her and I think is because I left.

Ps: the first date, she contacted me to go out.

Can anyone help with this long history? I really like this girl Thank you