How do I stop giving a fuck?

redhawkes · 2018-04-17T19:44:28+00:00

Abundance mentality + outcome independence.

It's probably validation/approval seeking behavior that you have internalized which resulted in inferiority complex.

alpha-zach · 2018-04-17T20:13:48+00:00

I haven’t figured it out myself. However something that helped me get half way there was judging everyone by their actions rather than words.

When I started doing that I noticed a massive difference between the two. This helped me realize that pretty much everyone else didn’t give a fuck, which helped me care a lot less.

The next stage was realizing that since they didn’t actually care, but were saying they did, they were lying to me. I definitely don’t like liars. So I was able to care even less.

Hopefully that helps you get closer.

kyzen142 · 2018-04-18T00:52:49+00:00

Train your self to be courageous cuz not giving a fuck in it self takes courage.

thotvermin · 2018-04-18T08:19:34+00:00

You are your own person. Start doing what you want to do. What you feel like doing. Think before talking, do not think before acting. You live your own life. Actually fucking live it instead of focusing on something else. Set goals and stick to them. Build your Empire. The only person stopping you from doing what you want is yourself.

vandaalen · 2018-04-17T19:44:19+00:00

https://archive.org/details/RobertGloverNoMoreMrNiceGuy

301niko · 2018-04-17T22:14:42+00:00

Leave your comfort zone. Move out of your country, city, whatever.

cenie · 2018-04-17T22:17:07+00:00

Once you realize that a vast majority of people you walk by or encounter each day won't remember you the next day.

kyzen142 · 2018-04-18T00:55:02+00:00

Also check the fearless man on youtube.

MrSittingBull · 2018-04-18T02:21:35+00:00

https://youtu.be/5jO4UFxiBps

This is one of my favorite videos and it puts everything in perspective. When you think of yourself as the puny insignificant life form that you are it allows you to take more risks because, in the end, it doesn’t matter.

cleverguy25 · 2018-04-18T02:56:22+00:00

Go get rejected 50 times then you'll start laughing and get used to the discomfort.

bigbodybuilderr · 2018-04-18T04:29:59+00:00

Read" the subtle art of not giving a fuck" No, this book doesnt have all the answers, but its a great step in the way

suckymeh · 2018-04-18T08:10:32+00:00

Take all of your fucks and lock them away in a safe.

youcantdenythat · 2018-04-19T03:05:48+00:00

Lift for a couple of years, get healthy, then you will understand.

Title	How do I stop giving a fuck?
Author	SakonTachibana
Upvotes	12
Comments	17
Date	April 17, 2018 7:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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