Most girls said that I am "nice and funny" and, supposedly it is enough for them to date me. I never had a seduction move, and all my offline approaches were people I knew for a while. Because English is my second language, Im really afraid of messing up any light flirting, so my recent dates have been online. I really want to try to date people I normally don't connect with. I have been trying to go clubbing, learn how to dance, accent correction... and several other habits to improve my social skills. But I still have the charisma of a chatbot Experiences, no sex, is my end goal, so I have been just hanging out in a friendly matter. I found out that female companionship is really appealing when it is just about an interesting conversation or discovering new places. I scored second dates but I blame luck. I don't sound like the kind of guy you want to pay attention to. I'm definitely not a Zuckerberg, but I am a slightly upgraded model for sure. How can I be as charming/charismatic as Obama/James Bond/my parents???