Been seeing this HB8 for about 4 months, hit it off instantly and she was heads over heels for me for the first 3 months or so. Been constantly utilizing push/pull, AA, amused mastery. My social circle is pretty well-established, and my dread game is pretty bulletproof - hit the gym 4 days a week, 5'10 170lbs with a muscular frame, etc. Pass the majority of shit tests but miss a few occasionally, been working on that. Don't typically see her during the week, may see her once during the week if our paths cross. I'll typically drop a line via text during the week if she doesn't initiate first, but we don't text all that much in general. We go out almost every weekend and do something fun, go to dinner, etc. We've had sex about every other weekend. She has been pushing for commitment for the past couple months and I finally gave in a couple weeks ago and told her we have a good thing going and that I'm open to commitment.
Went to a party with her this past Friday and drank a little more than I probably should have. She worked on Saturday, so I texted her Sat afternoon and asked what she was up to after work - no response. I knew she was ignoring me for whatever reason, yet sends me a snap both Sunday and Monday. I responded to one of them.
Saw her briefly today, I acted as if nothing happened. Couple hours later, she texts me this -
Her - "You've pissed me off" Me, an hour later - "How so"
Then she calls me a few minutes later and tells me that she was pissed off because I was socializing around at the party with some friends and getting girls to shotgun beers with us. She told me how I was telling the girls to just "throw it back," which I explained to her that it meant shotgunning a beer. I ask her if that is seriously why she is pissed off, and she goes on about that and then says just in general the way I've been acting this weekend.
An hour after the call, I get this -
Her - "That's not all I was pissed about.... I don't just get pissed off over dumb shit and I've seriously had enough and I actually wanted to talk to you but I guess since ya wanna act like a smartass there's no point."
What's the next move lads, is this a shit test or a comfort test? How to proceed knowing that I asked her why she was pissed off and only told me part of the reason?
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