Weird situation, about a week ago i found a screenshot of this chicks tinder i had found. So i added her on snap.

We talk for a bit and go back and fourth, i find out shes at a university about an hour from me. OK.

Fast forward, and last night she basically says i can come over. But she made it seem like i was an inconvenience and that her roommates didn't really want anyone over. I felt like it was gunna be a "we sit in the living room and chat" type of date so i told her i wasn't feeling it anymore.

Fast forward that night and we're talking and we start talking sexual. She sends me a pic of her huge boobs and we talk about us doing potentially sexual shit. Okay.

I ask her to see me tommorow she says she can't she's gunna be seeing her mom the whole weekend.

I say that's fine, then realize with this much of a gap after we had talked sexual it's not good.

She started talking about how she kinda regretted sending the pic and how all guys just want sex and how she's not about that anymore. I told her i'm not gunna drive an hour just to sit in her living room. She said we can go to her room and hang out when she gets back.

But she doesn't understand why i wanna drive an hour just to "watch a movie".

She's being super defensive and i'm worried when i actually get there, if i try to touch her or anything after driving an hour she'll push me off.

Or i won't even get to the point of seeing her when she's back or i have to meet her somewhere public.

This is why i'm not honest with my intentions, no self respecting girl is gunna agree to fucking a stranger on the internet. So i have to say "just hang out."

How can i turn this around..? Should i ghost her and make her question if i'm into her? I was gunna get sex and now i made her think about that too much.

ALSO.. don't say next, i really wanna see this girl. No it's not oneitis and yes i'm still gaming other chicks, don't use that as a scapegoat to give me real advice on this particular topic.