How to practice?

Elijah_Medellin1 · 2021-05-19T15:53:36+00:00

Trial and error my friend one girl rejects you keep your head up and keep going. Not every girl you ask out will say yes so take what you learned works and implement it the next time always try new stuff aswell.

Particular_Visual531 · 2021-05-19T19:36:57+00:00

Start with being straight forward "hey I saw you sitting in the cafeteria and thought you looked really happy"

Then try to make jokes and tease her. That is 70% of flirting language.

One way to joke is about shared experiences... you're in a long line, "wow, the next movie is going to be released before we see this one, this line is so long and slow." or cafeteria at school, "wow the things they serve here and call food, I tried to eat that stuff but when I stuck my fork into it, it fought back."

Teasing can be about anything but keep it really light and playful. And especially in the beginning i will give a tease and the say quick, i'm just teasing or joking, and then go right back to the original conversation to keep things light.

subzeromancer · 2021-05-19T20:45:11+00:00

Try talking more to pretty, confident women without the goal of scoring? There are plenty of them out there, and they would probably appreciate a conversation with a polite man which is not just out to get their number.

Ask for directions sometimes when you know where you are going. Advice for a good park to have lunch? Excuse me, do you know what time it is? Start short, move on before it gets awkward.

Any interaction builds confidence. Talking to a lot of people makes you good at talking to people. Practice means practicing.

Also, if you approach more of these women in a polite manner and NOT try to get frisky you will help to balance out their creep/gentleman statistic, which would benefit all us guys in the long run.

GreenDestiny94 · 2021-05-19T15:48:47+00:00

you are believing a lie, you do learn. after all human brain is designed to do that, to improve.

here is what help me out:

1) don't be afraid to do some scientific method. lets say, you want to go out and say hi to a girl that is sittng.

then you can map out all the posible ways to go and say hi. (you say hi agresively or in a shy way or a carismatic way etc) then, you try each of the ways at least 5 time each, and compare the results and the reactions.

2) if you want to pass a exam you get together with the people that study a lot.

the same case goes here. go a get some friends that have girlfriend or that are talented with girls. and do your best to see them on action.

then you can take those live exaples, and use it as a mark of reference.

3) read theory of pick up and game, those books and online video my sound like a joke. but they help you out if you have 0 experience. later on you will see that not all theories are right but is ok because you will be in a state where you can go on by yourself

dontbanmeagaindudes · 2021-05-19T12:25:11+00:00

how are you supposed to not keep fucking up?

By keep trying and learning from your mistakes.

sohamDab · 2021-05-19T18:16:40+00:00

I know why you aren't learning because you did nothing the last time so theres nothing to learn from
ok,
you need to fuck up once at least
you have to fail to learn

Agitated_Character41 · 2021-05-19T20:40:31+00:00

Easiest at the park when they're walking their dog. Just focus on the pupper for a while. They love talking about their dogs. Don't be like me though and end the encounter before the segue to them. I like dogs more than people and sometimes ignore them.

Geezerfart · 2021-05-20T14:48:47+00:00

No worries. There's someone for everyone. The right person may just find you. When it happens you'll have a smile on your face a mile wide. Try and just be natural and use your clever wit. You'll be fine.

Sup3rHD · 2021-05-20T19:04:51+00:00

Just go and talk to them

Packie1990 · 2021-05-21T17:25:42+00:00

Talk to girls without an agenda, like ones you have no interest getting with.Will take the edge off rejection because its not even on the table. Plus can actually teach you alot more about non verbal cues because you will most likely get more positive reactions.

Economy_Training_797 · 2021-05-22T14:38:43+00:00

A friend once told me to approach a different girl once a day, five days a week for a year, with the pure intention to talk to them. As an inexperienced guy, I had a steady girl within a month and three others trying to spend time with me.

I told him about it and he said he has never seen anyone make it more than two months without that happening.

daphuc77 · 2021-05-23T07:57:39+00:00

Easiest way is to talk to every women you see.

I’m always cracking joke and asking people how their day was while in line at the grocery store, in the drive thru of a fast food restaurant.

I have no shame in approaching random people to chat about the weather.

That’s where you start, don’t only talk to girls talk to everyone. Soon all strangers are like long lost friends.

Title	How to practice?
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Date	May 19, 2021 11:57 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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