How to close girls who are more shy/nice and don't give you shit-tests in online game?

Indekar · 2021-05-18T11:44:10+00:00

You shouldn't text like a chad who wants get her into bed as soon as possible. Shy women often like a more calm and clean approach. Be charming and charasmatic. Anythibg sexual too early and you'll seem like a creep real fast

GreenDestiny94 · 2021-05-18T12:49:16+00:00

i will give you a kind of sad opinion but. my best friend (bald and fat) has always had an easy time with girls and he is so direct and has no shame. then he meets a 22 years old timid girl (who has been my friend for long time), she is so shy that she has issue looking you in the eye!!

many men tried to conquer her but failed (how do you talk to a wall??).

well my best friend likes to talk and talk, he can talk!!, and he did just that, he did all the talking part and assumed that the girl wants him. he invite her out to do easy things like (go to shop for vegetables, go to check out some clothes, go to pick up the laptop that is bein reapired)

they dated for 4 months (yes they mated XD) and in that time, the girl was still super shy.

so from that experience i concluded that the best option is to move to a date with the girl you are hitting on, if the girl is present then assume that she is interested

but this is just a theory i never succesfully dated a shy girl, i do not have the mental power to do it

Zealousideal-Tie-898 · 2021-05-18T17:22:24+00:00

If you know the person is shy and timid, they tend to be more hyper aware of tactics. So do the opposite. Take the conversation away from that topic in a disengaging way and once you feel that the shyness has passed then put in the work. May take a bit longer, but worth it.

"Now that summers coming, what are your plans? Anything specific you want to accomplish before it's over?"

"How have you kept yourself busy during covid?"

Be engaging first and throughout the engaging conversation she will feel more at ease because you are being more tentative, engaging, leading by asking about her. Within that you try and seal the deal and lock in a date.

bluewahle1900 · 2021-05-18T10:48:27+00:00

I tried the direct approach and flopped because they are to timid, so I’m also interested in hearing peoples strategy

cyrusol · 2021-05-18T12:28:22+00:00

Like they still ask me questions, laugh at my stuff, and try to continue the conversation, but the conversation risks dying out and turning platonic bc there's less teases/passing of shit-tests to keep the convo alive, sexual, and fun.

That's an innate problem of texting.

Oxytocin only really works in physical proximity.

Dopamine may still work on its own when texting but the thing about dopamine is that it depends on how something is experienced. For example if you take someone out on a date and you have a great time (i.e. dopamine hits) then your brains associates that experience with that person. But if you only have a great time texting your brain associates that experience with the phone in your hand and maybe with the still picture and summary of her profile. But not with the person itself.

Testosterone only really works for men (duh, obviously) - due to that women have a much lower desire to just have some bedroom fun unless they are ovulating or if the man in question would be the best possible catch in the foreseeable future (but how is she supposed to find that out when you're only texting?) or if an emotional connection is already established (but that's not going to happen if you're only texting).

We're more hormo sapiens than homo sapiens, slaves to our hormones. Many people don't seem to understand that texting doesn't replace real interaction. There is a reason why it's recommended to only text for logistics. If she really doesn't want to meet you quickly you could suggest facetiming for a compromise. Seeing each other's faces is a huge step up from texting.

Paltenburg · 2021-05-18T13:54:59+00:00

Just ask them out?

intensely_human · 2021-05-19T00:17:29+00:00

Send them to me and I’ll convert them.

And when women play hard to get and give me shit tests, I’ll pass them along to you.

Title	How to close girls who are more shy/nice and don't give you shit-tests in online game?
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Date	May 18, 2021 9:02 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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