Hey guys, I hate to bore you, and also I'm not the greatest storyteller especially from the jump, but I want to make somewhat of a plea for help.

I am a late bloomer, and got my first gf at a ripe age of 30, and since then I've had sex with about a dozen women, a combo of hookups and girlfriends. Currently do not have anybody.

Here is the thing. I remember seeing posts on bodybuilding misc, by a poster that really stuck out in my mind. He went from a forever aloner to a stud who had dozens of chicks at his disposal. Seemingly all from simple daytime cold approaches. There are other examples a well, just that one sticks out more in my mind.

Now, my problem is, deep down, that I feel insecure talking to girls, because deep down I feel like they're are judging me, or are "above me", which is not actually the case; but my mind keeps telling me I'm not worthy of being with her, and I'm trying to take something from her. This is self-sabotage I know that consciously, but I feel that way deep down. Whenever a girl does not give me lots of interest, or is late texting me... I feel like she is rejecting me, and thinks low of me, etc. Which puts my self worth down even lower.

I feel like I have it in me - and everything is possible. But I don't know how to get over this sense of feeling "lesser than". and unworthy, where I know I have alot to offer. I'm funny, well "equipped", decent looking, etc. but in my subconscious, none of that matters. Hopefully this makes sense. And I hope that some of you guys can talk sense into me, because I'm feeling very low right now, and very frustrated with myself.

If you have any questions, please ask. I have no secrets, but I need to get to the bottom of this.

Thanks fellas