In my 34 years, though a late bloomer, I have some notches under my proverbial belt. Though work, online, cold approach etc.

I keep hearing that most people tend to meet their significant other through friends, or their social circle, or a mutual friend introduced them, etc.

I’ve never had such thing happen. Not sure why, but I’m the worst at this social circle game thing. A few months ago friends introduced me to a girl, and we thought each other were cute. Then I texted her, we texted for a couple of weeks, but she pretty much stopped replying.

Hung out with a small group of friends yesterday, and this cute 26 year old came to the pool with us. I find her attractive, but I’m clueless as to what to do. I could’ve asked for her number before going gone, but there’d be no way to not make it awkward. I don’t know why it’s so difficult for me.

I’d love to hear suggestions on this mysterious social circle game, that so many people find an effective and natural way to meet dates, gfs, fb’s etc.

Thanks fellas.