How do i act confident and sure of myself in person, and in text, with women?

jake755 · 2018-04-21T20:25:37+00:00

Holy fuck. You scream of entitlement, insecurity and are just plain condescending.

A) you have this idea of how people should be responding and when they don’t do it the way you envision its “their fault”.

B) people here are telling you what’s wrong, to actually read all of the sidebar and you want a specific quick fix “just tell me what to do”. When people say what you don’t like to hear you put on your condescending face with phrases like “obviously, but please tell me exactly what to do”. You provide nothing, haven’t tried new things, and don’t have a specific scenario or even any valuable input.

C) your attitude sucks. If you want advice stop talking like you know better and receive the advice you’re given. When I give people advice I don’t fold but when I make any posts for advice on here I defer to peoples’ words and advice with an empty cup. “I see, so this and this, but I don’t understand that”. Not “whatever dude I already know everything in the sidebar just tell me what I wanna hear unless it’s not what I wanna hear”

D) holy crap your entitlement. “I send jokes over text that she doesn’t get and it’s her fault for not getting it.” So it’s her fault and there’s no possibility that your joke just wasn’t funny? “Is that the good side of your face?” Condescending as fuck for someone you don’t even know.

Bro you’re not that funny. You obviously haven’t read the entire sidebar (though you said you have) or you’d understand why people promote text only for logistics. The less you text the better when you don’t know what the fuck you’re doing. We’ve been getting a lot of people like you that ask for help then think they know it all.

bluemoviebaz · 2018-04-21T18:50:11+00:00

Texting funny shit to somebody you hardly know is a bad idea! Text for bit of comfort and logistics at the start!!!

bluemoviebaz · 2018-04-21T19:15:40+00:00

Your doing the same thing the other 50 dudes are doing and I can guarantee at least 10 of them are better looking than you.
Stop being funny and nice there’s a few good articles in the side bar dude which will address these issues

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-04-21T18:44:16+00:00

Clearly you need to fucking go back to the side bar because you didn't read any of it.

judethedude · 2018-04-21T18:47:32+00:00

Don’t act just be. What helped me is to say less vs more, can’t generate attraction over text, even if you think your jokes are hilarious (they might be but it doesn’t matter over text). Gl

bluemoviebaz · 2018-04-21T19:22:59+00:00

Sidebar ->>>>>>>>

bluemoviebaz · 2018-04-21T18:53:49+00:00

If you don’t know the girl you need to approach it like baking a cake and take a bit of time to build a Bit’ of comfort before you go looking for the kill

alpha-zach · 2018-04-22T04:10:20+00:00

Don’t focus on text. It’s too hard to miss read. If you HAVE to text, be more beta.

BUT you’re missing something. You’re pic or interaction screams too much beta else where.

For example the second “follow up” text to explain yourself screams “I’m insecure” to a woman.

Alphas don’t explain themselves. They just ARE.

Title	How do i act confident and sure of myself in person, and in text, with women?
Author	jake755
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	April 21, 2018 6:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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