A lot of guys get a good interaction going only to have it fizzle out when they go for the meet up. And at least part of the issue, is quite often in HOW they try to close. In this video, I break down the most optimal closing strategy you can use.

https://youtu.be/cS_EqRp0Us4

Step 1. Build investment - If you want to maximize the odds of a girl responding positively when you invite her out, it’s important that you get her to invest a bit. Typically, I will wait on going for the close, until I get her investing.

Step 2. Soft Close - Once you get her investing in the interaction, the next step is to get her agree to the general idea of meeting up with you. You do this before you get into details. The underlying psychology here is that it’s much easier to get someone to agree to the general idea of something then an exact plan. This may sound a bit corny, but from my experience it definitely works.

Step 3: Figure out her logistics - Once she has agreed to the general idea of meeting up with you then it’s time to get a feel for her schedule. It makes no sense to just randomly throw out a day and hope she’s free. It’s better to use some tact and create a situation where she is free to say yes

Step 4: Hard Close - Now that you have an idea of her schedule, nail down a date & time that works for both of you.

Step 5: Confirm (if necessary) - If the date is a few days away, then you’re going to want to remind her in a low key way. Texting her a bit here & there leading up to the meetup is usually a good idea. If it’s our first time hanging out I might text her the night before “excited to meet you tomorrow ;)”. The morning of the date, I might send her a meme and then after she responds I’ll say “hey still good for tonight”....If the date is the same night, then this is obviously not necessary

Screenshot examples of this whole process in the video. If you have any questions, just post below