Girl doesn't want to have sex anymore. Not sure why? Need advice. Thanks in advance!

shittybillz · 2018-08-18T10:29:27+00:00

You're back in business bud. I don't think you were ever out of business actually. She just wanted to set some boundaries and allow you to see her as a girl that you don't just bang and then leave.

My initial guess is she legit likes you and doesn't want you to see her as some slutty club girl.

Seems like you know what you're doing, but I'd be remisced if I didn't say that you shouldn't convince her to have sex thru speech...playful jokes are fine, and she's clearly thinking about it, so I would bet it's gonna happen soon.

Get the domes, hang out with her again, and if it does happen, try not to leave in 20 mins lol

may_yoga · 2018-08-18T10:41:15+00:00

Do you like her? Or you just want to have sex?

wannabePUAnumber3000 · 2018-08-18T11:28:57+00:00

Don’t push for it too hard, make it seem like you aren’t hung up on having sex ASAP

harishblessyou · 2018-08-18T09:19:05+00:00

Talk to her

2018-08-18T12:51:32+00:00

The more you push the idea of having sex the more she’s going to realize she can have power over you with it. I’d just chill out for a bit about it. Even plan a few dates where you can’t go back to her place cause you have work in the morning or some other priority. Seems like she’s just testing you to make sure you’re not using her for sex.

You shouldn’t need sex from her anyway. You should demonstrate via your character and demeanor that sex is just a thing that happens between man and woman. Don’t behave like a junkie hitting up their dealer at 2am about it or else she will have the power. Women don’t want men who lose power that easily. They want strong willed men who don’t give that shit up.

So forget about sex for a bit. Maybe even text her less cause you should be busy with building your own life. Eventually she will come around or ghost. Neither is a bad thing if you’re truly working hard on your life and not some loser.

i_need_help_bro · 2018-08-18T12:34:20+00:00

I met this girl at a club.

Stopped reading there.

Move on, bro.

Title	Girl doesn't want to have sex anymore. Not sure why? Need advice. Thanks in advance!
Author	tryingtosmash
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	August 18, 2018 7:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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