When I speak to these women also, they seem different and more reserved. I came across this situation three times today within the same hour. One of them happened to be in front of me, I looked twice. Then a few minutes after when I focused my attention somewhere else. She stared at me for a mild duration. More times than one even. Probably 5 times. Stayed in my range of vision and kept getting closer. I looked to try and catch her to make eye contact and she seemed reserved again like she was hiding.

This happens on a daily basis. A few of the women I come across intend to make eye contact and stare when I am looking in their direction or sometimes not. So I can gladly catch that they are interested instead of guessing, and making me decide if I should or shouldn’t.

How should I approach the women who give me the quick/long stares and who try to make it look like nothing. When it comes to this I just do not want to fee embarrassed when I look back and they don’t. Personally it feels draining when this happens.

Any tips? I find myself either feeling bad or unsure of what to do