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[–]silencegold 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"No - as the newlywed couple..I'll bring the platinum rings for us okay?"
[–]bonkdaddy 2 points3 points4 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i would not let the "as friends" comment pass without defusing it with something cocky funny.
[–]chumpta 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i would definitely ignore the "as friends" thing. seems like it's going well and she wanted to throw that out there like you said, as a shit test/ASD thing.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And you do want to be friends, right?
I mean, you weren't planning on giving her a ring or a letter jacket, no matter how the night goes, right?
[–]cheddarchexmix 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not sure it's a shit test, more likely you've killed the attraction by texting her for a week, or didn't set up enough attraction to begin with.
May still be salvageable though, you should reply with something cocky/funny/ridiculous, like what silencegold suggested. If she brings up the "friend" thing on the date, just laugh at her like she's being ridiculous, which she is. Tease her about being from the 1800's and ask her if her father needs to accompany you when you meet suitors.
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