So I've been dong the tinder thing and well I've had some success, gotten likes from attractive women and all. But the whole thing is I am dating in the age range of 23-30 and well... It's that whole thing of, I am at the point where I should have my own place. The sheer embarrassment of telling one of these girls that I live in my moms basement would (I think) ruin any chances of getting with them. My logistics are all messed up. The vehicle I have I share with my mom was is just broke all the time, constantly needs stuff from me, makes any sort of dating life pretty messed up because she needs the car so much. And the house I live in is basically falling apart, it's old as the hills. Everything is broken and dirty. I feel like this is really shaming me badly, and people can smell it (not literally but figuratively). I feel like it's crushing my self-esteem around women when, I know, in my mind that if I were to ask one of these babes out it would just lead to a harsh end when they see I am this guy living in his moms basement. I'll go into detail, but I'll just say I've made some bad choices in life and I am paying the price now.