I didn't not expect to meet a fellow PUA in the club. He seemed to be a natural. He didn't even know how to dance really and just rocked it and girls danced for him. Intimidation was only one of the feelings I had tonight. But I got a small piece of the action.

TLDR: Had a black undershirt (sweat resistant and breathable... extremely comfortable). I had met a fellow PUA on the floor and was instantly intimidated but I allowed him to take control for awhile. I was able to make a connection with one girl but did not ask for her number. I was so out of state that I didn't know what was going on. But now I realized... I should have asked for the number and went in for a k-close at least.

Long Warm Up and Lost Time/Value I spent most of the beginning 1.5 hours wondering wtf to do. I sat at the bar for awhile. I was just thinking. Who do I talk to? I tried talked to two girl next to me. I gave her a napkin as she asked and I leaned to ask how she was doing and I was ignored. Humiliating as the girls weren't the most attractive either. Another girl approached me, and I leaned in and tried to talk to her and she just said excuse me and went to the bar.

Suddenly, I started walking back and forth between the rooms. Looking for the action. A fellow PUA walks in, I could feel the intimidation meant for any chode (I happened to be one) but he tried to cheer me on because I suddenly started dancing and mimicking him. Go figure! I didn't know how that happened or what he said. I just saw his face and knew what I had to do was dance when he approached me in my awkward state. Then I realized there were 2 girls and a guy dancing next to me. Within 5 minutes of him shaking his head and making funny faces, all 4 of us were under his control. Guys at the bar were watching and learning as was I. Only minutes go by, a (promiscuous) girl was grinding on him and she held his head close to her and asked what his name was. He replied and the other (shy) girl was leaning over and listening in as well. It was amazing. He (the PUA) turned to the guys and I told him my name and I leaned in to the girls to ask what the girl's names were as well. I instantly believed that PUA techniques really work once more. After 30 minutes, or so, I got closer to promiscuous girl and I bumped her a few times and she bumped back. I leaned in and I was talking to miss promiscuous and feeling her ass and making jokes with her on the dance floor. She was so sexy, but was a butter face.

I realized quickly that the whole dance floor was watching our group closely as we held our hands up... the outside groups followed a few seconds behind. I had the what the hell is going on moment. 2 more girls showed up in front of the fellow PUA (blue eyes and grinder). I left to bring up the energy of an all guy group just for the hell of it. They were frustrating to watch as they didn't do anything but drink and hit me on the shoulder. Looking back at the PUA, The grinder girl simply grinded with everyone (especially the PUA... the favorite). The blue eyed girl seemed to encourage her and only grinded with the PUA. I tried to ask for their names and they both gave me the hand. I started singing along to songs... I was thinking wtf was I doing and I felt stifled a bit. After a few minutes, I realize the PUA had his phone in his hand, getting the numbers of the girls nearby... 4 to be exact.

I decided to turn around and ended up dancing with a girl. I looked at her but she wasn't looking back. She kept looking at my body. I think I know now what she was thinking about because she never looked at my eyes just my hips and chest. She basically taught me a little bit on how to dance with her, also. I put my hands on her shoulders to tell her my name and ask for hers. I felt childish and somehow amused, but she turned around after her dad had made it to the dance floor. Haha. I had introduced myself to her dad as well and then she started to dance with her dad after she got two shots.

Another 15 minutes went by, the PUA had kissed the grinder and the blue eyed girl after some whispering on the dance floor. His hands were all over the place on these girls. His energy was through the roof. I started losing mine slowly as I saw his increase. I didn't know exactly what was happening, but I realize now that I wanted to be him. The irony of it all was that in order to be him and I would have to ignore the negativity which was currently coming from me defeating myself. My state was off totally again. The one time I did see him screw up was when he tried to enter a group of 10 girls. They didn't budge. It was a dancing bitch shield. Somewhat funny, but I tried the same but with my hands up to the almost the same effect. However, I did get the whole group to raise their hands in the air, which was a funny side effect. I think I should have asked for one of their names or asked why they were there now that I think about it. I was on my way to being part of their group. With them following my lead for a few more seconds, it would have been easy.

Promiscuous girl was saying goodbye to all the guys she danced with including me. I believe she gave a small peck on the cheek. I felt better, but then I felt like leaving about 5 minutes after so I left. I was confused and frustrated. How was I so intimidated? I can't be that bad. Then I realized. I forgot to ask for promiscuous's number.

Bad points and things to improve: I should not have waited so long. The painful first 1.5 hours was humiliating and I think it ruined my rep for the night. Don't ever ever ever... get intimidated by another PUA. I realize this and feel like I should either go with his flow (and pick up what is left over) or a better scenario would have been to go to him and use his energy to bring my state up to an acceptable level. I should stop mimicking him so closely. I would only be as good as him and not better. The only way to succeed is to find my own flow and bring myself up by my boot straps from the very beginning.

Good Points: The only real good points here were that I didn't choose to remember the first couple of hours and decided to enjoy myself after some time. I did make fun of the promiscuous chick for my own enjoyment, and feeling her ass was a godsend.

Conversation Threading Have you guys ever met another PUA with nearly the same skill set except when it comes to pick up? What is the appropriate reaction to that? How do people push themselves to go farther with a girl they don't know naturally, unscripted after so many rejections?