Living in a dorm with lots of girls

QuellonGreyjoy · 2016-04-16T12:46:27+00:00

You have to play it careful, you're right shitting where you eat is dangerous. Plus if you go for one and it goes south it can make it awkward for you and everyone in the dorm. Not to mention it could possibly make you off limits for the other girls if you go for one or even miss out on good friendships like someone else said.

It up to you but know that if you go for one then the other 10 are probably now off limits plus potentially any friends they might have. May be better to play it safe, they'll likely invite mates over who you can go for. If you do make a move on one wait till you're closer to your moving out date

sassygirl283 · 2016-04-16T10:23:17+00:00

I think you should try and be their friend first because you could miss out on good friendships if you try to move things forward too fast. If a girl rejects you then you miss out on friendship or even sex with them in future. If anything changes over time and you start liking them, then date them. Just focus on meeting new people, making friendships and if anything goes from there it should happen naturally.

Bigjohnthug · 2016-04-16T14:17:57+00:00

It isn't so dangerous as long as you play it cool and play it discreet. I have a VERY insular network at uni of around 30 people, guys and girls. I've fucked more than one girl in this group. When you fuck several girls eventually some drama happens and everyone ^hates ^you. Basically so long as you're A) a cool casual guy who doesn't take this shit seriously and B) a locked box on anyone you've slept with, then no one will have any issue with you.

TeeZeeOne · 2016-04-16T14:52:21+00:00

plenty of guys in history have fucked girls all over their dorms. They just don't care about the outcome. What do you want?

2016-04-16T19:39:35+00:00

You definitely need to tread carefully. Man, when I was 18-19, I literally knew nothing about the social rules of life. I wouldn't trust 19 year old me to do it right.

Be cool, fun, flirty all that. Don't ever pressure these women to sleep with you. But don't be too friendly either. You don't want to cross that line into the friend zone. Eventually, you'll find yourself in a situation where you can make a move.

I think the rule is that you can hook up casually with them, but if you want a girlfriend, better if she is outside of your dorm. Otherwise, you will be known as __________'s boyfriend and you will be off limits to all the other girls.

2016-04-16T12:34:27+00:00

You don't want to shit where you sleep? Are you crazy? For sure you need to bring an outside girl over ASAP and then start hitting on all 11. Throw a party, be the fun guy. Saying you don't shit where you sleep is such an obvious excuse to not put yourself on the line in a golden situation.

Title	Living in a dorm with lots of girls
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Date	April 16, 2016 9:40 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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