First date went well (consisted of kino + kissing, in the course of 3 venues). Next steps?

intjpua · 2010-11-06T17:46:04+00:00

Then I texted her, asking what she is doing tonight.

Don't do this.

Do this:

Hey, I'm hanging at X bar tonight. You should come by around 9.

Or:

Hey, I've gotta be downtown Sunday, and I'll have an hour to kill. Meet me at Y coffee shop at 3.

If she has plans, she'll tell you.

You should do less asking and more telling.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-11-06T19:09:09+00:00

After 3 days, her memories of your first date are cold and dead. You lost momentum. Now you have to start over from the beginning. If you call or text her, you're basically "telemarketing" yourself.

Next time, don't wait 3 days. Wait about 30 minutes. Then text her and see if she got home OK, or say some cocky/funny thing.

2010-11-06T17:30:01+00:00

You wait. Don't keep texting/calling. If she gets back, great.

If not, move on. Continually texting/calling her isn't going to make her get back to you any sooner.

Title	First date went well (consisted of kino + kissing, in the course of 3 venues). Next steps?
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Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	November 6, 2010 5:18 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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